It seems like i always have to have someone around me in order for me not to feel lonely. I have many friends but when im not around anyone I start getting really worried and lonely.. wishing i had someone here with me. I dont know why i feel this way. But i hate it.
2006-07-31 18:02:44 · 18 answers · asked by cmcc_coke 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i have the same thing. i think its called separation anxiety
2006-07-31 18:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People need other people, but they also need time alone. I'm pretty solitary, but I still like to be in contact with other people. It's a balance. Maybe you need more social interaction.
Your lonely feelings began at some point in your past. If you can find that point and understand what happened to give you your fear of being alone, you can remove that cause from your life and stop suffering now.
Another possibility is that you're afraid something you watched on TV or in a movie (or maybe read in a book) will happen in your real life. Don't worry. Life is mostly safe.
2006-08-01 01:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people feel like they are alone, but really god is always there. It might seem kind of freaky but just think about it hes there in the good times and the bad times. So my advise is just to talk to him and there is a very good chance that you will not feel lonely any more. May God help you through this time of need and may he bless you in every way. And always remember he loves you and will forgive you no matter what.
2006-08-01 01:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle532000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be your age, are you in your teens or early 20's? I love being alone now, but I used to hate it when I was younger. It comes from not feeling okay in your own skin, and having to have someone to constantly bounce things off of. Being on the computer doesn't really help if you are lonely, sometimes it makes it worse, because you feel even more alone. Hey, I'll talk to ya if I'm online!
2006-08-01 01:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Therealmsred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times like that is when True Christians start saying that maybe theology would help..
With many people just PRAYING does enough.
IF per chance you are a Christian there is a web site you could check out. Very good - teaches one to help OTHERS just as much as self.
It's a bit of Bible Thumping, but not too bad.
2006-08-01 01:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age you are???From your problem it seems as if you are of marriage bearing age.If so then go for marriage because it is natural to feel lonely in this age(specially at night).Only marriage can solve your problem because at night when you are alone you need the lap of your wife who could comfort you and make sure that you are not alone at this moment of loneliness because she is with you.
2006-08-01 01:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because your friendships and other relationships are somewhat superficial or "surface" level. What you are really craving is a real partner in life, one who is intimate with you, not only physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as well. "Deep calleth unto deep." You are missing a relationship of DEPTH. I am praying for you now as I type this that God will send that person into your life, to ease your lonliness and to fulfill that very normal yearning you have.
2006-08-01 01:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Shalom Yerushalayim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be suffering from depression and it's nothing to be ashamed of. You might try seeking help from your family doctor or your local mental health services. Even better, see if there are any clinical trials in your area, they offer medication for free and sometimes the pay a modest amount to compensate you for your time. It wouldn't hurt to check it out.
2006-08-01 01:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to God. He is just waiting for you to call on Him. "Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29:12-13
The reason you feel lonely is because you have a hole in your heart that only God can fill.
2006-08-01 01:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Amber I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this in the religion forum? It sounds like you aren't independent enough. You need to find a hobby that keeps you occupied and entertained enough to not worry about.
2006-08-01 01:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by cwido25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here. so now you know that someone else is sitting here alone too. I will think of you if you think of me when we are lonely. then we won't be quite so lonely. ok?
2006-08-01 01:07:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋