How to win my ex back?

Question

We have been broken up for one and a half year but i still love him. I can't forget him as he is always on my mind.I have tried to forget him but everytime just failed. He call me or i call him from time to time but we don't talk our past, just a friend's conversation. I wanted to tell him i still love him very much but i don't dare to cause i afraid he may go away from me n avoid me. I really don't know what to do, it's already one and a half year since we broke up but i still can't mend my broken heart and hoping that he will come back to me one day...

He said the broke up first and i had asked him why, he just give some lame excuses and didn't even want to explain about it. He is still single now and every of friends asked him why u don't have any new girlfriend yet, he just smile. Whenever i talked my things in front of our friends, he pay attention(hearing) of what we'r saying, i pretended to no notice about it. and vice versa. I feel that he still loves me but... He was hurt from his first love...
I'd ask him for together again half a year after we broke up. He answered ' i can't guarantee u any happiness,sorry'. What can i do, i told myself to forget him and move on but failed. Three months after that i got a bad news from him, he wanted to leave for study in uk, i went through even harder time, i thought i can forget him since we seldom meet but i can't. Now he is back here for summer holiday, when we went out, he just treat me as friend and like a bit avoid 'not talking much like we did in calls before he came back'. I really don't know what to do, just wanting him to tell me that 'actually i still love u and plaese forgive me for hurting u'...

Answer 1

I REALLY THINK YOU NEED TO JUST LEAVE THIS ALONG
I KNOW THAT YOU STILL HAVE FEELING FOR HIM AND THAT
NORMAL, BUT SWEETHEART, TIME TO MOVE ON, THE
LONGER YOU KEEP DOING THIS TO YOUR SELF THE HARDER IT WILL BE. AND YOU MAY NEVER NO WHAT OUT
THERE UNTIL YOU GO FOR IT

Answer 2

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