Why does everyone obsess over.......?

Question

everybody elses sexuality!
you can be straight, bysexual, or homosexual
I swear i am so tired of hearing how every single person that is gay is going to hell
I am straight, but that does not mean that i am gonna ridicule somebody elses choices in their sexuality.
Would everybody quit obsessing over Lance Bass and every other person that is homosexual.

i made a mistake saying "choices" in their sexuality

Answer 1

I think its wicked cool Lance came out! I agree about obsessing over everyone's sexuality, but its also so neat to see someone like Lance Bass come out and tell the truth about himself. It gives others the courage to do the same! :) If we don't talk about it, then things will never change in society.

Answer 2

I agree, it doesnt matter what sexuality you are, your still equal as everyone else, nobody likes all the same food or music or movies, why should sexuality be any different? whatever someone wants to do is their buiseness, just cuz you dont know the reason doesnt mean its wrong, just means you dont know.

As for lance Bass, i could tell he was gay from the beggining, but that doesnt matter, does that change anything he did before everyone knew it? no it doesnt, so why should it change what he does in the future?

sexual preferences are just that, preferences, doesnt make them right or wrong, just what that person prefers.

Answer 3

I agree with you in every way except one: homosexuality is not a choice. Why would someone choose to be hated, discriminated against, and even physically attacked? If it's a choice, why are there homosexuals who kill themselves because they can't cope with the ridicule and hatred? They could have just chosen to be straight if sexuality were a choice.

Answer 4

I really don't know, I think anything out of the normal interest people and they either embrace it and what to learn anything they can, just live with it with out a care, or reject it and hate people for it. I'm gay and I really don't understand why people care. My answer is that people really need to learn that there life is no way connected to someone else's and therefore they need to stop obsess over another's.

Answer 5

Because sexuality is a hot topic. Whose gay and whose not is just the top of the barrel. Trust me, I've been to the bottom and it's a long way up from there.

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Answer 6

Don't get over obsessive yourself.
All media issues are bound to open an opinion.
You wouldn't want people to stop you from yours would you?
Just politely say, "That's your opinion and I don't agree". Subject ended. 'nuff said.
That's all they are sweetie - opinions.
If opinions bother you that much, you're not alone, but you can't stop them either.
Change the subject or opt out of discussing them.

Answer 7

well, i dont know what the big deal about lance bass is, im surprised he didnt come out sooner. and im also surprised the rest of the band hasnt come out either. lol. oh well. it was a very smart career choice for him to not come out sooner i guess.

Answer 8

because you are too young and uneducated to know..that human civilization was going on a long time before MTV..and throughout history male homosexuality and deviant behavior have been warned about as being a contributor to the corruption of the human..

Answer 9

that is so true.
and it good lance bass came out of the closet.
but its not a surprise.
he was such a pretty boy.

Answer 10

well, in my defense...i didnt put myself on the cover of People magazine professing that i was straight.

but yeah, youre right.