Ok, im prolly gonna hav my first kiss on saturday wen me n my bf go 2 c a movie. how do i kiss him?? lik i relly need tips plz help!! im desperate!!! thank you sooo much! plz no stupid anwsers i get how ppl kiss eacho ther but like how can i do it, u no? i relly need help!! thank you so much
2006-07-31 17:51:57 · 18 answers · asked by SFGiantsLuver 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your going to the movies then go to one that'll give you an excuse to get close to him (horror movies usually work best but do what you feel). Lay a head on his shoulder or hold his hand. If you gotta jump, jump on him then laugh it off along with him on how silly it was (since he may be laughing anyway). Take it from a guy, we like to feel like the guardians in any relationship. On the way to the car, let him know you enjoyed yourself. Maybe lick your lips to give him a sign that you want to kiss. Slowly move in, open your mouth just a little bit...then do whatever feels right. Just don't let him in you pants, keep him coming back for more.
As for the kiss itself, tilt your head sideways a little so your noses don't get in the way. Suck in a little air, Just A Little, don't suck his face off, but just enough so then you two stay together. If you find yourself frenching, stick your toungue in his mouth and kinda softly push on his or whatever you feel like doing.
Good Luck.
2006-07-31 18:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by New York 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, just take a deep breath a relax. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are this stressed over it, you may be too young for your first kiss. It doesn't matter if your friends have done it, everyone is different. Maybe he's not the right guy.
But if you think about and decide you think this is the guy and the time, then don't worry. Girls and boys have been kissing for thousands of years. Everyone has had a first kiss and everyone has gotten through it. If it's the right time and person, it will happen naturally and without stress. Maybe excitement, but not stress and worry.
When he goes to kiss you, and you're sure it's right, then just close your eyes and focus on feeling his lips on yours. for your first kiss, you shouldn't try to do too much. No french kissing or trying to make out like you see in the movies. Just let your lips linger on each other, enjoying the feeling and the closeness. If you do that, you will instinctively know what to do. And if he's not respectful of the fact that this is your first kiss and he tries to push you too far or too fast (like sticking his tongue down your throat right away), then he is not the right guy or else he may need some gentle lessons in kissing. Some guys think that if they don't shove their tongue in your mouth, they're not really kissing you. Let him know right away if that's what he's doing. You don't have to do it in a mean way, or even say anything, just guide him with your lips and your actions to show him what you like and what you're ready for.
A first kiss is a big step in a girl's life. Please make sure it's the right time and the right boy. There is no reason to rush into it, and you want it to be really special because you'll always remember it.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-01 01:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it happen, it's not something you can really train for. It may feel awkward to you at first but that's part of learning. Hey, if you like each other that much, you both can practice on each other, eh? You'll be fine. Just make sure you don't go any further than a kiss till you are ready.
2006-08-01 00:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before the kiss, get close and stare eachother in the eyes, then move in closer and tilt your head a lil. hopfully he'll get the point and do the same. then move in for the kiss with your eyes closed. while your kissing, you'll probably go french, if you do, go krazy with your lips and tounge, playing with his tounge, etc. just have fun. theres really no wrong way to kiss
2006-08-01 00:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry if this is a stupid answer but how can you call him your bf if you havent even kissed him yet.....even if you 2 agreed going out on a date hes still not your bf until you kiss........anyways i wish i could help you but sadly i've never kissed a girl....sad huh.....anyways just go slow keep it soft and not too much slobering.....and tilt your head
2006-08-01 00:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a peck on the lips and if he wants more then give him more like making out with him u kno like the other person said "Just Go With The Flow"...just dont bother other ppl that are at the movies...lol!!
2006-08-01 00:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't force it, it will probably be a little awkward at first but you will get the hang of it quickly. Careful of the teeth.
2006-08-01 00:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by ChaCha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax your lips, and when he leans in just respond to what he's doing! dont be too agressive, just let your lips touch his! oh you know what? go get some good tasting lip gloss, it adds a great touch!
2006-08-01 00:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by coldilocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,But I'm still a kid I'm only 10 years old.Why do spell all of these words wrong??
2006-08-01 00:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just lean in and touch his lips very softly then kind of lean away but if he wants more than just go with the flow
2006-08-01 00:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋