2006-07-31 17:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by kingl_617 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How important is it to you?
Ask her the reason she does it in the first place - the answer she gives may be the clue you need.
Acceptance isn't for everybody - so if you find it is a reason to want to change her, then that's the wrong reason - if you can't accept it, then be true to yourself and find a girlfriend with the same morals and values as you have......but it doesn't hurt to voice your opinion calmly as to your disagreement and ask if it wouldn't be something she could stop for the sake of a relationship - honesty, fairness and truth are always a good basis for a discussion of importance.
2006-07-31 17:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't like it when she smokes. Tell her it's you or the weed. She'll make her decision. Then you'll how how she feels.
Remember that pot is a stepping stone drug. The mild high you get from it will, for many people, diminish with time. Then they turn to harder drugs to get the same high. Eventually she'll have a very expensive and dangerous habit if she doesn't stop while she still can. While it's not physically addictive, it's mentally addictive. That's what makes it so hard for people to stop.
2006-08-01 00:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone do something they don't want to do. If its that big of an issue for you than you need to get a girlfriend that dosen't smoke.
2006-08-01 00:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzybunny95531 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how harmful it is for her health, and that you would not want to have kids with a pothead. Also provide her with a lot of emotional support, because it is hard to kick any habit alone.
2006-08-01 00:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by South Louisiana Chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Why'd you get involved with someone who smokes anyway? Besides, if she really loves you, she'll pick you over weed.
2006-08-01 00:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by c_w_b_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im trying to get my boyfriend too. I keep telling him how I dont like his personality when he is smoking, he said If its upsetting me so much, than he will stop smoking it when hes around me.
I suggest you compromise with her, like I did with him. First get her to stop smoking it when shes going to see you.
2006-08-01 00:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by e a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her 2 quit n y u want her 2 quit...if she respects you as well as herself then she should stop...
2006-08-01 00:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop.it is not what we do but rather her decision to stop.Good luck.
2006-08-01 00:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for her if thats what she chooses.... (but she gonna b missing out)
2006-08-01 00:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by tiffanyannroze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoke with her don't be a square
2006-08-01 00:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by nans77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋