dump her...shes prob. cheating on u
2006-07-31 17:22:36
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answered by Kylie Morgan :] 2
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I don't see any reason why your gf would not let you meet her ex. But let's give her the benefit of the doubt. There's nothing wrong with her having friendship with her ex for as long as it's true that they are only friends. That is because they have known each other for long and even his family members are friends of your gf.
But your gf should also understand your feelings and emotions regarding her friendship with that guy. She should know that she may offend you every time she talks about him.
I think you'd better have a heart-to-heart talk with your gf concerning that man. Tell her what you don't like in what she's doing relating to him. And tell her that with all honesty, she should tell you if she doesn't have romantic feelings for that man any more because you want to know the truth. Inform her that your relationship's longevity depends on her real feelings. and once and for all. ask her if she really loves you. Analyze whatever she answers if it is true.
If she says that she loves you , then, trust her with what she is doing. And the only time that you should react about it is when you find out that she is lying or doing something detrimental to your relationship.
Don't end your relationship too soon without giving her time to analyze her actions. Be fair in everything and I'm sure, fairness will come back to you.
2006-08-01 00:33:14
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answered by Ruzzo 4
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I know how you feel. I just started dating a girl who still talks to her ex of 3 years, along with a few other ex's from the past. I can't stand it, the way she laughs and agrees to go out to dinner. I put my foot down and told her she has to choose - Them or me. Simple as that. This was 2-3 weeks into our relationship.
In my opinion, you should do the same. If he is an ex, then he should be left in the past. YOU are the boyfriend, not him. You should have all of her free time, you should be able to enjoy dinners with her, movies etc. not the ex.
So, my advice to you is stop treating YOURSELF like dirt, regain your confidence, and lay it on the table. Don't even bother meeting this guy, he's not worth your time. Tell her either its you or him, and if she chooses him, then tip your hat and away you go to the next gal. Its much tougher than it sounds, but it must be done. Good luck man.
2006-08-01 00:31:14
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answered by screenname001 1
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It sounds sketchy that she would not let you two meet. The ex sounds like an important part of her life and if you two are serious, she should share everything with you. For your own good, go with your instinct. If the relationship is not what you want, go find one that makes you happy.
2006-08-01 00:25:45
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answered by Chicagoan 2
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I WOULD LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS
SITUATION, AND FOR MEETING THE EX. YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE TO, HE IS A EX FOR A REASON, SHE SHOULD RESPECT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS AND SINCE SHE
DOESNT NOT, I WOULD SERIOUSLY THINK ABOUT MOVING
ON, RESPECT IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
AND WHEN YOU DONT RESPECT THE OTHER PESON
THEN HOW MUCH OF A RELATIONSHIP DO YOU REALLY
HAVE.
2006-08-01 00:31:18
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answered by luckystar 6
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Follow her and then play dumb and say "oh I didn't know you was going to be here" YES! works every time
2006-08-01 00:26:58
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answered by Raqi Killer 2
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i say break up w/ her it seems like she still likes him but she likes u to so she just chose u! to her it might have seen like u were the one that didn't care if she would cheat or not! not sayin if she did!
2006-08-01 00:25:17
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answered by I'LL LUV RICH BOYS 4 U 3
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