2006-07-31 17:14:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is just afraid of being the first because she wants to make sure that you want to give this special gift to her. Just let her know that you are completely ready to lose your virginity (if you are) and that she is the one that you want your first time to be with.
2006-07-31 17:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's doing this because she knows that you have no history or any skills in the bedroom since you have waited to have sex. I'm very sure she is not a virgin so she has had partners before becoming your girlfriend. With these partners she had sex and these other men have had a lot of practice in the bedroom. She might feel as though you won't be able to please her yet. Another thing could be that you will want to go out and have sex with other women at some point. Let's face it any man or boy that has sex for the first time will want to keep getting it and try sex with other people because they simply want to see the difference and feel the variety. I'm sure most men will tell you this. She could be scared of that fact. I don't have a right answer on this topic just my opinion. I'm assuming your girlfriend knew about you being a virgin, she shouldn't act like this if she already knew. If she really loves you it shouldn't matter. You should look at her a little better and really ask yourself is she worth you having sex with for the first time when she's acting this way towards you? There are plenty of women that wouldn't mind and would teach you a whole lot of sexual techniques along the way. Give yourself away to someone that will make it memorable.
2006-08-01 00:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a man that has never got your u know what out at every chance you got? Good for you!!! There need to be more men like you! Wait until you are married or find the right gal! You would be better off finding someone that will show you the ropes or find a girl that has been saving herself for you as well. I think that the first time is always the best and you will always compare everyother time with that one time. Make it a good one!!! Good Luck and enjoy it!!
2006-08-01 00:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by angieblount112404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's dumb of her she should be glad that you have no bad habits from other women and she can have safe sex with you knowing that you have never had a STD. So what are you going to do ? find another woman to have sex and then tell her that she is not the first. That should make her happy? Right!! she will kick your butt out for having sex with the other girl first more if the other one is a prostitute or ask her if she can recommend one of her friends if she doesn't not want you to get a hooker. OR maybe she thinks your not Mr Right for her
2006-08-01 00:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your question leaves a lot to be explained. Did you wait for a reason. Were you waiting until you got married? Perhaps you told her this and she feels religiously compelled to not take your virginity. Perhaps you should nail her friend or sister, then she'll be more interested in sleeping with you.
2006-08-01 00:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You have waited to have sex?! Does this mean you are a virgin? I am so proud that there are decent men out there still! I have hope now! Anyway, I would be scared to. But tell her she can't go wrong since you wouldn't know if it was bad anyway.
2006-08-01 00:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Carleyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would wait till you get married or sumthin...cuz you have waited this long dont fu*k it up and be stupid and lose it to someone who you will not be with for a long time...you only get one of those things man...ONE...thats it...dont waste it. I did...and then I found the man of my dreams and the father of my child...and only if you knew how bad I wished I would have waited for him...
2006-08-01 00:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in your 30's and never though about sex dam i wish i had a man like you that shows you are truely into love and personality
2006-08-01 00:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by swettie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are both ready and the timing is right...don't plan a special night for it to happen...let it happen naturally
2006-08-01 00:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Erving Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help? what do u want us to do it for you? ok well im free at 4 so pop round and we'll fix that little virginity problem for you.
2006-08-01 00:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋