I was just planning a date to get married on. I was thinking on Valentine's Day. What do u think?
2006-07-31 17:09:39 · 27 answers · asked by mands4ever0214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't do it! A couple only has two designated days to remind each other about how much they love each other - their anniversary, and Valentine's day (of course, you do it all year long, but the days give you an opportunity to take time away from life to celebrate each other's love).
If your anniversary coincides with Valentine's day, you miss out on you and your fiance having another special day. Don't rob yourselves of this.
Congratulations on your upcoming nuptuals!
2006-07-31 17:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyB 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Valentines day is not romantic because it's over commercialized, the guy is forced into being romantic instead of independent romantic gesture. It's over used for engagements and weddings. The cost of wedding flowers are expensive enough as it is without paying Valentine day prices. Have a non -holiday date for your anniversary, so you get another special day in the year to celebrate, get gifts and be pampered.
2006-08-01 14:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea most people make plans to spend time alone with the one they love its not fair to take that time away from a guy who could be planning something for six months cuz most people feel obligated if invited to attend.plus so many people have done that.but it is your day so it is your choice.plus say alot of marriages,not that yours will cuz I pray for you and everyone else who gets married that it won't do you always want to remember valentines day as the day you made the biggest mistake of your life,if you ever feel that way.Plus places hike up all the rates for holiday wedding,imagine roses being 15.00 a dozen and are 30 or 40 cuz it is valentines day.
2006-07-31 22:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was married to her ex-husband on Valentines day. She hated it then, she hates it now even more. It has ruined an otherwise romantic day for us.
Why get married on a day that should be special for couples? If you select another day, then it is one more "holiday" to celebrate together that you wouldn't have had at all before. Then you can celebrate your anniversary AND Valentines day together! Bonus!
My Wife and I were married on May 1st, which has a lot of traditional springtime good luck to get married on that day. Plus it is May Day, and there are flowers everywhere!
2006-08-01 05:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by LEMME ANSWER THAT! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this is a bit off base, but here is my 2 cents.
i was born on x-mas day. now as someone who already shares her "special day" with the rest of the world, i would definatley say pick another day.
1) it will give an excuse for combined presents. i know it sounds greedy, but it actually makes you feel less than special.
2) you have to share your anniversary with everyone else, therefore taking some of the specialness away.
3) you don't get 2 special couple days anymore, they are rolled into one (kinda goes along with the combined presents thing)
..... it's all hard to explain, and i know i have hang-ups about the x-mas b-day, but let me put it to you this way....
knowing what i know about sharing days, there is NO WAY i am getting married anywhere near a holiday, or the month of december.
so i don't suggest it, you might regret it.
2006-08-01 10:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its what ever you want. I personaly wouldnt want to. The date im getting married is nov 19 which would have been my fiancees 49th wedding anniversary (they both died last yr 5 mths apart of cancer and he was very close to them) I would choose a day that has special meaning for the both of you like the day of ur first date or the day you met.
2006-07-31 20:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by dmestle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentines Day is to overused. Make your own special day. It does not have to revolve around a holiday. The main point is the two of you sharing that special day together.
2006-07-31 17:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cause it will be a burden on your guests. you dont want to have a wedding on a holiday especially valentines day cause all the couples that would be going to your wedding would be having there special dates. so dont make a selfish decision
2006-07-31 17:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it, plus Valentines is a good excuse to get another present that is not anniversary or bday hahaha
2006-07-31 18:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by jimena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can put your wedding day in Valentine's Day because it's full of LOVE!
2006-07-31 17:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋