my boyfriend is crazy about my under arms.during the entire course of our love making he even refuses to look at my face&focuses just on my armpit.he loves to smell them.It is a normal behaviour.I must admit I like the attention I receive from him.Now he is forcing me to stop shaving shave my underarm&insists on me wearing sleaveless.he has no problems with me waxing my arms and legs I caught him noticing other girls armits as well.I must admit it gets quiet emberassing when other people stare at my unshaved armpits.my boy friend does not seem to mind that too.is my boyfriend suffetring from some mental illness or is it natural for guys to be attracted to girls armpit. PLEASE ADVICE....
2006-07-31 17:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Radhika 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Well it is good to hear I am not alone, though I never really thought I was. I am turned on by my wife's pits, and I generally find that it can be a sexy part of the female body. Not all that surprising really given the extreme attention that is placed on grooming ones pits - particularly for women. On top of that, it is known that humans produce pheromones so perhaps like me, your bf is sensitive to that. Now I would not want to go sniffing around a complete strangers pits, but I smell is among the things that I notice when I am with someone I am attracted to. I read once that it may be related to how a persons immune system works and is all part of finding the right partner.
Anyway, the shaving thing is what it is. I don't care one way or the other. My wife doesn't sometimes which I kind of like. Shaving is not something that is a natural behavior, but has been taught by companies that want to sell shaving products. If you don't believe that, just check out how much money companies like Gillette spend on advertising to make sure that we say "eeewwww" when we see hairy women.
2006-08-01 17:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
hmm...well, it's all right to be aroused by a persons body odour, because both males and females produce something called " PHEROMONES " these are complex molecules that enter our body and give our brain an instant sexual rush...they can tell us if a person is sexually compatible with your body or not. they turn us on or off according to our unique sexual charecter. our brain interprets this information as a smell, or rather, a perfume!
but if your boyfriend's eager engagement with your underarms goes beyond your body's smell, he probably has a fetish.
festishes are generally mis-understood and mis-interpreted as deviant sexual behaviour. what most people don't realise is, that all of us have some fetish or the other, in varying degrees...some people recognize theirs, others don't; probably because they are not confident enough about their feelings.
talk to your boyfriend calmly and soothingly. you need the assurance that he sees you not just as another pair of underarms, so you'll need to talk things over with him. give him some suggestions, as to where else to focus his energies on when you make love.
you never know, you might find you have a fetish too!
2006-07-31 18:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by dxps26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is kinky! Personally, I love my BF's armpits...Body Odor contains natural phermones and it IS a turn on. As for the not shaving thing, that's cool as long as YOU'RE cool with it. You should not do anything that you are not comfortable with just because it turns him on...This is your body and you should make your own decisions on what to wear, etc. I hope for your sake that he likes more about you than just your pits - after all, you are MORE than just a pair of armpits!!!
Also, he should look at your face once in awhile when you're making it....
2006-07-31 17:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I think your boyfriend isn't all there. I have never heard of someone being into someone's armpits. I don't know but if my boyfriend wanted me to not shave my armpits, I would dump him because that is not normal talk. I never heard of a guy that is attracted to girl's armpits before. If I was you, I would talk to him about what is his obsession with people's armpits.
Take care.
2006-07-31 17:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the smelling of the armpits maybe explained by the fact that your body does produce a unique aroma, that may attract him. But I don't see how he would like hairy armpits. I always have to make sure my wife remembers to shave hers.
2006-07-31 17:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Flaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal about unshaven armpits!!! But females let off a smell that excites the male hormones.
2006-07-31 17:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said on another question, normal is a setting on a washing machine.
2006-07-31 17:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's freaky. that's like some guy staring at someone's a**. Armpits are not the usual.
2006-07-31 17:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called a fetish. It's not abnormal, its just his thing. It may not seem cool but whatever. If you don't mind it and you like pleasing him, I guess you two were made for one another. goood luuuckk
2006-07-31 18:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats good to hear he is like that.. I thot I was the only one :) but see its not that I want her to have hair cuz I like them shaved but I wouldn't mind if there was.. she shaves them but if she didn't I wouldn't be grossed out.
2006-07-31 17:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by The Answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋