I have been going out with this guy which i love, things happend and i got pregnant we are both joyfull about this baby. Last week i went to the beach with my family, I went insided the water of course, i didn't think that the waves where that strong. The wave was so strong that it slammed me to the dirt hurting my stomach i started bleeding so i lost the baby. i still have not told him because i dont know how?
2006-07-31 16:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, BUT YOU NEED TO TELL
AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, BOTH OF YOU WILL NEED COUNSELING, BOTH OF Y OU NEED EACH OTHER TO
GET THOUGH THIS, GOD BLESS. YOU.
2006-07-31 16:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line: There is no easy way to tell the person you love about something as heartbreaking as this. You just have to do it. It takes courage. You can make things a little easier by telling your guy in a private, relaxed setting, instead of hoisting this "inconvenient truth" on him in public or when things are already tense. Also, emphasize that you are healthy -- I'm assuming that you are -- and that you can get pregnant again. After you "spill the beans", be sure to encourage him to express his feelings about the situation and really listen and try to understand what he is expressing. If he doesn't have anything to say, don't try to force him to express something. Just be accepting and supportive of him, and hopefully, he will do the same for you.
2006-08-01 00:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by sensitiveguy9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I'm so sorry for both of you. Its not your fault though, it was an accident and accidents do happen. The truth of the matter is that it just wasn't the right time for you. It will happen but it just wasn't meant to be right now. The best thing you can do though is tell him. You will always have the guilt in the back of your mind, if you love him and intend to stay with him it wont help your relationship by holding this back. Relationships are based on honesty. I am sure he will understand., Good luck to both of you. x
2006-08-01 00:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just terrible. I'm sorry for your loss. Find somewhere quiet and just tell him. It was an accident and it was not your fault. If he loves you.. truly loves you he will totally understand and it may turn out to be a good thing because it may make the bond between you and him even stronger
2006-08-01 00:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is truly tragic. I am so sorry for you. You should tell him as soon as possible. If you both are as in love as you say, maybe you can both get married now and have another baby.
2006-07-31 23:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this is a terrible loss listen this is hard sit him down in a quiet place at home while he watching tv or doing anything and tell him that you lost the baby and he probaly tell you ma sorry baby or something but he will be shocked and just tell him
2006-07-31 23:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let it down on him slowly and if he gets mad just back away for a while. Maybe try again.
2006-07-31 23:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry.what i would do is tell what happened and then tell the cause of the waves.
2006-07-31 23:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you it will be easier. He will be there for you and you need him at a time like this.
2006-07-31 23:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Christina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him......
2006-08-01 00:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by larapookiebear18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋