seriously, how do you find someone who doesn't want to just get in your pants?

Question

and how do u know when your really ready?

Answer 1

the thing is ...the more u search the less u find...so many guys are just interested in what u have between ur legs and not what u have between ur shoulders...they think that girl feel and think with our thing between legs and they are totally wrong, and to be honest now a day its sad and true that its not easy to get a real man who cares about u and not about ur booty or ur friend down there ...and its the reality , men not all of course are more interested to get in ur pants t hat get in to ur heart and mind...but well as i said its reality and we must face it, so its a matter of luck to find a good man, a gentleman who is inteligent, sensitive, well educated, and not just oriented to get what u have inside ur pants!!!!! but well we must keep looking for one of those rare men...and maybe we have all the luck one day and we can get a real man not a sex freak....

Answer 2

We guys see it two ways : If you are a smart girl, with an interesting and smart conversation, at first we will forget to slip into your pants and will talk and talk, date and date and enjoy tons your company but eventually go for it; (if you girl dont do it first :) )....On the other hand, bimbos will be approached straight forward with a socially accepted sexual dance (aka canned lines, sexy flirting or dancing, etc.)... beware though, no matter if you look better than Angelina Jolie, many men might walk away if you have the conversation of a 3d grader.

Answer 3

how to find someone? just e-mail me :)

I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life."

I loved you yesterday
I love you today
I'll love you tomorow, in every way
i hope in my heart, u'll always stay

you make me happy
you make me smile
every moment with u, is so worth while

without you with me
i wouldnt survive
ur the one thng that keeps me alive

dont break my heart
stay by my side
i miss u the most wen we say goodbye

you were my first love
your my only today
the way you smile blows me away

when i think of you, my heart skips a beat
so stay with me now
forever nd more

for without u baby i'd be no more

Letters begin with ABC
Numbers begin with 123
Music begins with Do Re Mi
But true love begins with
you and me

Answer 4

look for friends first, before romance. make it clear at the outset you are looking for nothing more than friends but are open to the possibility of something more happening in the future if the relationship/friendship developes that way.

but where have you been looking, as you cant have been looking in the right place. pubs and clubs tend to be full of guys looking for short term flings. if you want a serious relationship and you are over 21 then just go out and about and make a few guy friends and see what if anything developes.

Answer 5

Well as a guy the long term plan is always getting in your pants, but that doesnt mean that i havent treated you like a princess, respected you and cherished you, and done many nice things for you along trhe way. Shoot me I wanna lil action somewhere down the road.

Answer 6

Go to places where the main theme is not to pick up casual sex dates for one thing. Join a club or group that focuses on something you are interested in, and you just may find someone who shares those same interests. Friendship does develop into marriage sometimes - it did for me 34 years ago. (and stop trying so hard, it happens when you are not focusing on it so much!) Best wishes.

Answer 7

Sometimes it's a little hard to tell, especially if your judgement is clouded by your emotions. Watch out for signs like them getting mad if you refuse to do something with them. If they really care for you, they'll appreciate your company, and will have fun just being around you. If you're worried, don't go to private places as much. Go out to dinner together, to a movie. Go bowling or anything outdoorsy. If the person only talk about sex and wanting to have sex with you or something...that's a BAD sign.

I would just go with your judgement. If you feel like they're not interested in YOU so much as in DOING you, then ditch em!

Answer 8

you'll find that person when you truly know it in your heart .Looks can be deceiving because you may think that hemay look like the type to get in your pants when its all said and done. But if he just calls you to hear your voice or says he loves you just to tell you and he ain't tryna force you to do something you don't wanna then he's a keepa

Answer 9

Quit putting out in the first ten minutes you are together. You attract the dirtbags when you are easy! If you gain a reputation of being a hard to get one, the ones that are looking for just sex wont come around anymore!

Answer 10

Girl get a guy from church. Everybody at church aint saved, but at least he want be so quick to get in your jeans. See what Im saying. When he wants to talk about life, Goals, Dreams, and Things to better himself. When he ask you how your doing or whats wrong, Do you want to talk about it. Thats how you will know that you find the right one. Good Luck Girl