she wont take me back.
i loved her for 2 yrs.
i wanted to move in with her in a app.
2006-07-31 16:49:41 · 28 answers · asked by Jack S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
aww
try the magic 8ball
or
get over it,you were not married so you have no legal claim to her
2006-07-31 16:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how forgiving a heart she has. You hurt her badly. She has doubts. Don't try to pressure her into forgiving you right away. It takes time for wounds to heal and sometimes they never heal. Try being a real friend to her and if it is ment to be you will have her. If she belives you have really changed then she will give you a second chance just be patient. If she can't find over time to forgive you and you love her like you say you do let her go because she deserves happiness. You have to remember that you lied and cheated on her and that is not easly forgiveable. If you are reallly a changed man and she won't forgive you learn from your mistake and find someone else who can make you happy as well as you make them happy.
2006-08-01 00:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if she has moved on... we pay for some mistakes for a very long time.... and if by chance she did take you back it probably wouldnt be the same because there would always be that lack of trust and that my friend would get old real fast....
My advice to you is to move on and remember this lesson of lying and cheating.. if you truly loved her it would have never been an issue
2006-07-31 23:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by monie99701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you f#$#ed up. That's a lot to forgive. How would you feel if it was the other way around. Give her some time to get to know you again and maybe start over. I can see where she wouldn't want to move straight in with you. You will have to prove to her that you have changed.
2006-07-31 23:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loved her, but you still cheated on her? I will never understand how people can do that. She may, some people think that "everybody deserves a second chance," and then some people believe "once a cheater, always a cheater."
2006-07-31 23:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by playdoh1986 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect her to believe you right away. If you want to make this work, you're going to really have to work at it. Leave her be and let her observe you from a distance. Be her friend first and see what happens. Don't push getting back with her.
2006-07-31 23:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by keyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you proove to her how chanegd a man you are then she should. But if she doesn't then it jsut wasn't emant to be. At least you know you tried and when you aks for forgiveness you did a good deed whether she accpets or not, thats HER loss.
2006-07-31 23:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~Princess~From~Hell~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should only take you back if you've become another man. Sorry give it up and find someone who will give the "changed man" a chance.
2006-07-31 23:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would tell you to get stuffed. You've caused too much heartache and there's no guarantee for her. You say you love her but you wouldn't have done it if you trully had. Let her go and find someone more worthy of her affection. If you loved her you would let her go.
2006-07-31 23:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a changed man? If you are then there is definitely Hope. Good Luck.
2006-07-31 23:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat, always a cheat. You screwed up, move on.
2006-07-31 23:54:29 · answer #11 · answered by robbet03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋