at the beginning of our relationship my boyfriend and i decided that we didn't want sex to be part of our relationship just yet. we have been dating for a few months now and i really like him. but for the past two weeks it seems that all he wants is sex. i'm so confused. today he really tried to get me to and it ended with me crying. i'm not sure what to do, i like him so much and i really care about him.
2006-07-31 16:49:03 · 6 answers · asked by sara901 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you were lied to. It just seems like maybe once you have been with him for a while he decided he did want to have sex with you. I would stick to your values, though. if you are not ready he has to accept that and if he really likes you, he will.
2006-07-31 16:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
peer pressure is a mother.. don't let him pressure u into sex if that's not what u want to do.. it's ur body and u should treasure it cause u'll only have it once.. if he can't understand that u don't want to have sex then obviously what u want doesn't matter to him as long as his needs r being met.. u should move on....
u caring about him doesn't mean u shouldn't care about urself..
u come 1st
2006-07-31 23:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that if he really cares about you as much as you care about him that he will respect your desision. Give him a break though he is a guys after all. If he still doesn't understand....look for someone who will respect you
2006-07-31 23:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by tonche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it when you are ready! You dont want to regret it. Also remind him that you care but why would he want you to be uncomfortable? Theres plenty of time for these things later on.
2006-08-01 00:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! if he loved you he would not be pressuring you for sex. i don't know how old you are, but there are plenty of guys out there who would be happy to date you for ever until you were ready for sex.
he can't love you as much as you thought he did/does!!
just my opinion based on being a guy aged nearly 33yrs old
2006-08-01 00:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't respect the fact that you still aren't ready for sex... Dump him.... If he can respect your feelings maybe it will work.
2006-08-01 00:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by pickelsmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋