Yesterday my "girlfriend" told me she was going to go drinking with her girlfriend. I said ok have fun, but after a while my gut told me to ride by her exboyfriends house and "check". I seen her car there, yet at this time I was a little pissed off, so I call and no answer finnally she picks up, I ask her what she is doing she says drinking with her girlfriend, I say how can you be doing that when your car is at your ex's house. So we argue on and on about her being there she says she is talking to him about her and I. I was with this girl for 2 months, she was with him for 3 years. She is 21 I am 18, never been in a serious relationship. I broke up with her today on a good note of being friends, for now. The last 2 weeks of our relationship she had been depressed about somthing but wouldnt talk to me. Should I stay close friends with her and see if it would work out better, or should I just move on? I like this girl, but how do I know she didnt do more than just talk. What should I do
2006-07-31 16:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by Ry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can be 500% sure she was cheating on you, one way or another. Sorry, but you already knew that.
2006-07-31 16:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by disintegrationisthebestalbumever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to move on. You are only 18 and have so many options. If she was with this other guy for so long and lied to you about even just being at his house, you can bet she was not there talking about you. You deserve better!
2006-07-31 16:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Smartypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all what made u go to her ex bf house?? how did u know to look there 1st.. if u knew she still had feelings for him u should've never agreed to have a relationship w/her..
if she's depressed then i'm sure she got friends and her ex bf to talk to.. that's her problem now not urs so u should just move on..
and try just dating instead of trying to get into a serious relaitonship especially if ur not ready for one..
2006-07-31 16:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was cheating on you and she lied to you. You did good to break up with her. The only reason she is acting like she is depressed is because she feels guily and she knows she was wrong. Be friends with her but dont fall short. Your exactly right, If she did it once she'll do it again
2006-07-31 16:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to wake up. Obviously, this chick is for sex only and you should treat her as such. Don't "break up with her". Instead, simply screw her as much as you want until she finally wanders off. Screw a number of different girls on the side. None of them have any business knowing what you do with anyone else. If you find out she (or any of the others) is having sex with someone else, simply shrug. THAT'S WHAT THEY ARE THERE FOR.
It's not a big deal unless you foolishly treat her in such a way that implies she is anyone important to you.
2006-07-31 16:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I just got cheated on...forgave her...then got dumped...so for your best interests I would cease all contact with her. If it's meant to be, it'll happen some way. Just my opinion.
2006-07-31 16:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by sg88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋