I love this boy, I have decided that yes I do LOVE him. His face makes me smile. His words make me laugh, and just the thought of him feels as if it will clear the darkest sky. How do I tell him how I feel, is it too strong? Or do I even tell him at all? Please help me.
2006-07-31 16:41:05 · 19 answers · asked by emo_musician 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your starting from friends I would take things step by step because if you lay it all on at once might scare him or be might take you for granted. If I were you Id get things rolling but take small steps
2006-07-31 16:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by iceburg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you tell him how you make sure you know him well enough that you won't seem like a stalker. If he knows you well enough make sure he likes you enough to ask him. If he makes good eye contact with you, smiles, laughs at your jokes, trys touching you, complaments you, and teases you these are all good signs.
If, however, this is not the case get to know him better. Talk to him, start conversation, flirt with him, and show him you are intrested, and see how he responds.
About telling him how you feel don't practice what you'll say to him because it will never come out the way u want. Try to get him alone before telling him because telling him in front of other people will put him on the spot. Look into his eyes, and just say what you're gonna say.
Also it might be good to note that you should never asume it's love because if he says no it will break your heart. Love doesn't come in until you have established a relationship, and can trust eachother. It isn't love until both of u feel the same. Hope that helped.
2006-08-01 00:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him something, depending on the status of your relationship. If you are friends and not dating, then start by telling him you like him as more that friends and see how he reacts. If you've been dating a short while, tell him you are "falling in love". If it's been a long time, then tell him you love him. You are the best judge of how open he is the level of caring you feel for him. If he's caring about you and your feelings, like when you say you are sad, he tries to cheer you up, then he'll probably be open to the declaration of your love.
I know honesty is the best policy, but sometimes it's better to go slow until you know how he will react. Some guys (and girls) get scared if you try to tell them things too fast. He might think you are pressing him for a similar declaration that he might not feel. But you won't know until you at least bring up your feelings first.
2006-07-31 23:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. In so many words. You know, those three little words. I have no idea how he'll respond, as I don't know him. But I do know this -- if you build up an expectation of how you want him to respond, and he doesn't do that, you'll be hurt. Go into this with the attitude that you're telling him how you feel. Don't expect him to respond in kind; he may not be ready to yet. But it's important that he know how you feel about him.
2006-07-31 23:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remembe honesty is the policy so well u be honest with him, tell all what u feel and think, never keep ur feelings, cause sometimes we keep what we feel toward that special person and when we want to tell him or her what we feel its too late, never let the fear get u cause u will never do the things ur mind and heart tells u to do....u say what u feel and wethere if he reach good or not well u will feel yourself free.....and that feeling its awesome...always be honest , never lie, and do the things u wanna do when u feel its the time to do it...dont be afraid, cause if u never take the risk ...u will never know what he feels too....so go ahead and tell him what u feel....and hope everything will be great for u......
good luck
2006-07-31 23:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by unangeldeamor02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to figure out how the boy feels about you! yu cant just put your self so out there without having a clue about how he might feel for you! but im shure he feels something for you you seem like a verry passionate person and guys are into that... just don't drown him in it! good luck!
2006-07-31 23:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Isabel! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially just tell him you like him. Do not tell him you love him or he will run away in the other direction. Figure of Speach. After 6months or unless he says it first you can tell him you love him if that is still true. Good luck.
2006-07-31 23:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always best to tell someone how you feel. dont be afraid of how he will react, your just being honest. just make sure its not unreal.. like if u have been datin him for 2 days. lol
hope i helped
2006-07-31 23:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will happen if you don't tell him and you can't be shy about it. if he don't know that you don't love him then maybe he thinks that you don't love him at all! so just tell him and hope for the best that there could be!!
2006-07-31 23:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by So Imperfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice. Just be prepared for the consequences.
2006-07-31 23:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋