6 months ago i returned my sweet mexican wife to mexico because we asked immigration what was best to do to help her get her papers fixed,i filed all document as reqested today i call immigration to see what more i could do to help, he tells me i cant do very much more just wait, but it will be 10 years bar from the USA for her unless SHE can prove it will be to hard for me without her, i told him she didnt have to much time to wait because her family gave the oldest son the house and he wants to put them out on the street so he can sell the house and move away he is a very bad man really,and the mother and father are around 68,and i cant really let my with live under a dirty blanket on some street in mexico city to get raped or killed just to make the INS happy, the man said im sorry but it would not be possible for you to prove that to us,is their anything more i can help you with today sir,]..people I cant pay rent and utiltys on 2 homes OR let my wife be in danger, HELP ME please''
2006-07-31 16:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by JALISCO 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Sounds like it's time to pack up and move to Mexico. You can't leave her there alone and INS is not going to relent very easily. i know that there are a lot of horrible places in Mexico where you may not want to live but it's a big country and there are a lot of beautiful places where the two of you could settle.
good Luck
2006-07-31 16:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by irartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you. I just checked through your previous questions to determine if this story is on the "up and up" and it seems that it is, as you have asked lots of questions in the Marriage and Family category regarding your present situation. Therefore, I believe you.
You say you were told by INS that she couldn't come back for 10 years - I am assuming the reason for this lengthy time of her being barred is either because she committed some serious crime/s while illegal in the USA (over and above crossing the border illegally) and/or she has been deported from the USA once or more times in the past. If this is the case, I doubt that there is much you can do about the length of time. Maybe you will need to move to a border town and move her close to the border on the Mexican side so you go across as often as you can to visit her. Get yourself a less expensive place to live, maybe even just a small apartment or something and locate a decent place for her to live in and maybe then you can afford both places. Maybe you could eventually relocate somewhere in Mexico in order to be with her until the required length of time has passed and then you can bring her back.
I'm sorry for your situation, but the law is the law and it can't be changed for individual cases. See, it is situations like these that make me angry at the illegal immigrants for bringing this upon themselves in the first place, and then crying to everyone about their sob story. If she had not come over illegally, you would never have met her and fallen in love with her and you wouldn't find youself in this situation right now. You probably would have met a legal citizen to fall in love with.
As cold and harsh as that may sound to you, I speak from experience about this, as well. My daughter is in love with a deported illegal immigrant from Honduras. She is only 23 years old and he is 34 and I rue the day she met him! He claims he is on his way back very soon now and I am hoping he cannot make it back up because I feel he will ruin her life and the lives of their possible future children. However, if he does not make it back here, I fear that she thinks she loves him so much that she will choose to move to Honduras in order to be with him and I also cannot stand that thought. That she would actually choose to go to such a terribly poor third world country and likely raise her children there, is beyond my ability to understand. Honduras is much poorer and more dangerous than Mexico! Not to mention, much further away! No, I am hoping he cannot make it back here! I believe if he can't make it back and even if she makes the insane decision to move there to be with him, it will only be a matter of time and she will be contacting me to ask me to buy her an airplane ticket back home. If so, I hope she comes to her senses before there are any children.
2006-07-31 16:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, that stupid rule sucks! Same thing would have happened to me and let me explain why.
When my husband came here from mexico, he came on a tourist visa. We got married and started filing all the proper paper work....
However, a trusted friend told me, that if he want back to mexico for whatever reason, they would not allow him back in for 10 years! He gave me a heads up, because the INS won't ever tell you that. So of course he never left US until all the papers were filed and he received his green card.
THAT is just wrong, sorry my friend....I would talk to an immigration attorney to see if he can help with your situation....Good luck
2006-07-31 16:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 05:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by macpherson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your State Senator and Congressman.
2006-07-31 16:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a Mexican lawyer and contest thr transfer of your house.
2006-07-31 16:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by elge13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't they have small apartments you could rent in Mexico, or friends that will sponsor her. Will you being her husband could sponsor her. People that are sponsored get in easier.
2006-07-31 16:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by hexa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just move to mexico!
2006-07-31 17:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sad man i think you should try 2 get her here by any means necessary even if it means breaking the law
2006-07-31 16:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by tati 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* So sad. I'm sorry.Why can't you sponsor her?Why doesn't someone else sponsor her?
2006-07-31 16:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋