If she cheated while you were on leave with the army there is a chance she just cant handle the stress and loneliness involved in her man being shipped off somewhere. If this is the case and you're serious about her don't leave her again. If she cheated while you were in town she will probably always be a cheater, either dump her or consider couples counseling.
2006-07-31 16:13:57
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answered by acidicblackrose 2
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i am sorry to hear that your wife cheated on you. forgiving such an act is very hard thing to do. the girl i have been with now for 16 months had cheated on me and for a long time i had no let it go. after that happened we were on and off in the relationship for a long time. we hurt each other quiet abit over the next several months. was it worth it, no. did it make things better hurting her the way she hurt me, in some small way yes. but you have to look into your heart and come to terms with it. even now i still fight with it. but i try and keep it to myself, because me and my g/f decided to move on from the past, and not hold what we did against each other. i am forced to have to put up with the guy, cause he is the father of her kids. not ask you to understand my problem, just trying to help you with yours. if she says she is sorry and truely means it then she will try to make things right. if she continues her ways then you need to cut her loose and be a single man in the army.
2006-07-31 23:18:11
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answered by vladshouse1 3
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It takes a lot of time to forgive someone special to you for cheating.But being a nice honest person is no reason for her to cheat have you ever thought that being in the army and being away for so long may have left her feeling lonely and needing the arms of you her lover to hold her and comfort her I know this would be hard being away so long and if she is being honest and true to you then she should understand just how hard it is for you too.
2006-07-31 23:12:41
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answered by flying_eagle_72 3
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I'm sorry for saying this it might be a bit harsh but it is the truth....
She cheated no doubt?
well..... the honest truth is.... she is bound to do it again, it's very very possible.
If I were you, I would find someone that loves you as much as you think she does.... that WOULDN'T cheat on you at all and yes that girl is out there no doubts about it, because everyone has that special someone, that someone that won't let you down no matter what, but she cheated on you.... I would be out the door if I were you.
2006-08-02 21:07:31
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answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4
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I don't think that is why she cheated on you I think the reason she cheated on you is because she missed being held and having someone to hold her give her another chance because if you didn't want to then you wouldn't be saying any of that on here.
2006-07-31 23:12:27
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answered by Anonymous
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She took advantage of you, lied and cheated, I'd be out the door, the idea of having my boyfriends hands on me after he put them on some else, digusts me beyond words.
2006-07-31 23:10:37
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answered by Queen_Bee 2
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okay first of all don't forgive her a cheater always a cheater. All u can do is move on. There are plenty of girls out there. But if u still like her go for it.
2006-07-31 23:22:43
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answered by Lovely 1
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i don't know when you will be able to forgive her. but i do know she has to prove to you that you can trust her and that's going to take a long time and be a hard road. i hope she realizes what she has done. and more power to you for staying. i know it takes alot out of you. but just keep in there if you really love her and can see somewhere things working out.
2006-07-31 23:11:28
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answered by lilgracie 3
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