I used to say that I wouldn't tolerate a cheater. Then it happened to me, and I couldn't leave her. It destroyed me but we were too deep. She is my best friend, the only person I could go to to help me get over it (sad and twisted, I know). I had cheated on her while she was out of the country for two months. I had told her and she forgave me. Now the tables had turned. It was almost a year ago and I still think about what she did a lot and regardless of whether I am unfaithful to her again or not, I can't imagine telling her about it and putting her through that torture. I'd rather leave all of the burden on me. Still think honesty is best?
2006-07-31 15:59:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me get this straight....she cheats on you, then you cheat on her. What part of your relationship is deep? That sounds ridiculous! If you really loved eachother cheating would have never even been an issue in the first place.
2006-07-31 16:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.
Cheaters are the strangest animal. They are like a kitten that scratches you over and over again. You love the kitten but hate their actions. It's hard to forgive but, even harder to forget. Talk it out and see what happens. You will be stronger for it.
2006-07-31 16:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by lopezjri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is no future in the relationship. If you have both cheated, then you don't love each other as much as you claim to.
2006-07-31 16:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to grow up and stop spreading STD's around. You make me sick.
2006-07-31 16:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋