I've been in many bad relationships, and I'm just starting to wonder, are there any nice guys that will approach a pretty girl with loads of guys after her? It seems that all the nice guys are scared to tell me when they're interested, and all the guys that approach me are cocky a**holes that think they can have me because they tell me they have a 12 inch dick. I'm just so tired of all my friends saying I get approached by assholes because I'm pretty. Are attractive girls really that intimidating to nice guys?
2006-07-31 15:50:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not calling myself pretty. My friend told me that nice guys are probably intimidated by me. I'm really nice to most guys, unless they come of really cocky like no matter what i'll be attracted to them. It just feels like everytime I let someone in I get screwed over.
2006-07-31 16:00:06 · update #1
You will find the right guy! You did say that you have had several bad relationships. Maybe instead of haveing these typical, crappy guys pick you, Write a list of your demands that you want to see in a man and if they don't have at least three of the qualities that you are looking for, drop them. Sounds like you don't want to be treated like a trophy, just for show because your pretty. You take the initiative and find that man thats out there for you. Good Luck and don't forget to make a list.
2006-07-31 16:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well the assholes dont really care if they make ***** out of themselves so you being pretty just means a hotter girl to ****. When nice guys see pretty girls they get nervous and intimidated cuz they dont wanna mess up and are afraid to lose thier chance. Their also intimidated cuz alot of times the pretty girls end up with the assholes and only the smart pretty girls realize they can do better than that. So maybe you should try finding a nice guy and approaching HIM, and dont play hard to get with a nice guy hell give up on the spot and be discouraged. Believe me im the nice guy type and we dont take playing hard to get as a joke. Most of all just think how the nice guy must feel in the situatuion and just pick carefully and choose the one you think is the one for you.
2006-07-31 15:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by gtapro91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes and no.
Yes, you will find a guy who's not a scumbag if you want to. You have to go to where the nice guys are, and you're clearly not doing that.
There is also something in your personality that attracts these kinds of guys . . . just wondering, were you abused as a child?
That seems to be the telltale marker of girls who are always in crappy relationships, because somewhere along the line, they were taught that that is all they were good for.
Try going to a Christian Bible study. First, you'll meet girlfriends who will help you to overcome some of the "harder," for lack of a better word, edges of your personality that causes you to attract those types of guys, and secondly, you'll meet guys who have made it their purpose in life to NOT be like those scumbags that you are currently running into.
And in case you're afraid you'll get a square, I've only met one or two Christian dudes who were SO square you could have used them as a frame for a photo.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-31 15:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest yes pretty girls are more intimidating. I have an incredibly beautiful girlfriend who is also very smart(she's a teacher) and I worked with her for 4 years at our last job before I even said a word to her and it was because i never even thought she would give me the time of day. I've now been with her for 2 years and wish I had talked to her before. It is unfortunate that looks take such high preference in our society today and that guys are also wired kinda stupid. I apologize for that. Also, at least in my life and the lives of those around me I've noticed that you'll go through a lot of losers before you find a great person. Hopefully I've been at least a little help.
2006-07-31 16:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by ferrarif50tt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
its because if you are that pretty, then we think that u will leave us for some GQ type a guy, when you find him, I have usually had pretty girlfriends/wives, but may go for someone that is more my level, If you want a nice guy and u are that pretty, then u need to ask him out, u make the frist move and they will be more likely to continue with you....I'm avaiable if your intrested in a nice guy in NM. im at wizzard4angels here or on my space...hope to hear from you, are u angelic......
2006-07-31 15:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes guys do get a little intimidated
by a pretty woman.But,on the other hand it's on
on how you carry yourself.If you have maturity,
class,and respect you will attract different types
of guys.Nicer guys are out there but first you
have to make your self known in a more mature
classy way.
2006-07-31 16:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at you nickname.
And
Your attitude sux, your language sux too.
You probably have a crappy attitude (no offense) which manifests in a certain look on your face, and the way you present yourself.
You cant present yourself like "im a queen and you are a jerk".
Now watch below, you will get propositions from the same typical type of guys and then you will wonder why?
Self fulfilling prophecy.
Im keeping it real.
2006-07-31 15:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it works the same way with girls and attractive guys i am sure. just give it time. you will find someone who likes everything about you. also... do not be afraid to make the first move on a nice guy that you like, you never know...
2006-07-31 15:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of nice guys out there. The problem is that the bad ones stand out more.
2006-07-31 15:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is truth to what you say about nice guys but alot of really nice guys don't think they will have chance with a pretty lady, because past experenices has told him that. you will meet a nice guy
2006-07-31 15:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by hotmaxus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋