Abortion-what would u do????

Question

My x-boy and I have been back together only a month now..and I just found out I'm pregnant(Yes, 100% its his) We both have said we DON"T want more kids- i have 2 he has 1. I am thinking about aborting it -and I know i will forver hate myself for it but i see it my only option(we both work loooong hours, i carry the gene for multiple sclerosis as 1 of my kids have it- it would be a drain on our relationship to have another child) but I know its wrond, anyway, should I tell him I am getting an abotiojn or spare him the hordid details??? Im scared!

Answer 1

Abortion is a God given right that no person can take away. God himself / herself invented abortion in the form of miscarriage. And God uses abortion for good reasons. I believe that it is up to you to determine if it is God's will that your fetus be aborted. And when you think about abortion, do not think of it as murder, or even as killing. Only a hateful God would allow such a thing.
People are defined by the God they choose to follow. I follow the God of the bible and his Pro Choice views. My God invented abortion because he knows that sometimes it is not right for a child to be born. MY God knows when it is wrong and right. MY God does not kill babies or fetuses. MY God takes the soul of the fetus and protects it from harm. MY God does not fear the actions of men or the effect of their actions. MY God has the power to correct mistakes made by men.
The pro life god is a weak god. Their god allows the murder of innocent children and the killing of doctors and the bombing of hospitals. Such a god should not be followed. Do you choose my all powerful, all loving God or do you choose the hate filled murdering god of the pro life movement? Who will you follow? Who will you believe?

Answer 2

In my opinion, just because it would strain your relationship, is no reason to have an abortion, there are people out there that can not have babies that would take it, and love it like it was their own. If you know that it is wrong, and that you would hate yourself, then why even consider it. You should have thought about more kids before having unprotected sex. Don't take it out on the baby, it did nothing wrong. And as for the Multiple Sclerosis, there is a chance that it will not get it. Why not give it a chance to have a loving home either way...

Answer 3

Oh Honey, I was in a position once where having a child seemed like an impossibility to me. I even went so far as to make the appointment. I couldn't go through with it. The father ever being a part of our life was out of the question. I was raped at 14. My beautiful daughter was born just after I turned 15. She's going on 30 now. She is beautiful, talented , and very intelligent. I've never regretted one second of her life. She is one of my best friends. I'm sitting here now looking at the 2 beautiful grandchildren she gave me. I can't even imagine what my life would've been without her. All the joy and love she has given me. God will always make a way. When she was born I was so afraid that I would screw her up because I was so young and didn't know what I was doing. I gave her to God. I prayed for him to give me whatever I needed to raise her and be the best mom I could be. He has never let me down. He gave me instincts about what to do and when to do it. I know it came from him because I was own my own and we made it just fine. If you do decide to do this you really have to tell your bf out of respect for him. It is his child too. At least let him be a part of your decision. If not and the truth comes out later (it always does sooner or later). You stand a good chance of losing him too. I hope I was of some help.

Answer 4

i'm against abortion. but i wont lecture you on my feelings on the matter and that you'll be killing a cell that grow up to be the next president or what ever. personally what ever you choose has nothing to do with the comments we put on here. ultimately you have to make the decision. i wouldnt recommend aborting the child. you have more then that option you know. there is also the option of having the child and giving it up for adoption. there are so many people out there who are unable to give life. and yes i do think that your boyfriend has the right to know about what your thinking about doing. he helped in making the baby, why cant he "help" make the decision on its fate? anyways, like i said you guys have to make the decision your selves.

Answer 5

me personally i wouldnt do it b/c i believe(im not saying anything against u or anything like that)if u r mature enough to lay down and have sex knowing that there are risks for what u have done then i feel like that it is ur responsibility to handle any outcome that comes of it. the baby did not ask to be made and i feel that from conception that it is a living being and i personally could not live with myself knowing that i paid to have a living being killed. im not trying to tell u what to do it is ur decision solely. just take a minute and pray about it and then come to a decision. Good Luck!!!!!;)

Answer 6

Sweetheart only you can make this tough, heartbreaking decision. It's his baby and I think he has a right to know. Maybe he'll surprise you and be very supportive of whatever your final decision is - together. And think of this: What if you get an infection or something and he finds out you not only aborted the baby, but lied? Either way, I wish you peace in your heart regardless of the outcome. ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

Answer 7

I agree with Just Me. There are so many people out there that would take this baby off your hands, and probably help pay some of your expenses while you're pregnant. You DO have options. Snap out of your panic mode and check them out.

Answer 8

ok i am no one to judge anybody. and in the end u are gonna do what u want anyway, sooo i'ma just say this. you know what sex brings right, so unless ur takin precautions, don't have sex if u are not mature or resposible enough to handle the consequences. i understand that u have other children and other obstacles surrounding this issue, but... like i said deal with your desisions. and if you do go through with it, i would let him know, that is his kid too. and he has the right to know.

Answer 9

If you have not told him that you are pregnant, he has the right to know as he is the father. Please do not abort that baby, if you don't want it, adopt it out. Some one will more than gladly take that baby.

Answer 10

I think you should tell him, but the choice is ultimately yours. You say you know that having an abortion is wrong, but why is that? There is nothing wrong with doing the right thing for your family and your life.