Assume you have been seeing each other for about 3 months, but you have not officially become an exclusive couple. I have asked her to become my girlfriend, but she isn't ready yet, but says there is potential.
2006-07-31 13:31:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would call nightly....to ask her how her day was and pretty much talk about the day together. I love doing that with my fiance. I think when you call at night to see how her day was it's showing that you care and want to hear about things going on in her life.
Other than that, I would also call anytime something comes up- like you want to go out with her or you're inviting her somewhere. If you really have something you need to say or want to say...aside from just friendly chitchat...give her a call!! :)
2006-08-02 11:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. If I was seeing someone for 3 months, I would want to talk to them everyday. I would expect a call everyday. But if she says she isn't ready to be your girlfriend, then maybe you need to give her a little bit more room than usual. Every couple of days, I guess. How often do you call her now?
2006-07-31 13:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by onucoqui2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she waiting for? Is she really interested in you? It "smells" like you are about to be lead on. Don't let it happen. I would call maybe once a week or once every other week. Maybe send her a email every now and then. I say that because you have been after this person for 3 months and she's not ready for a relationship. If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't call her everday because she may consider you to be annoying. Don't run behind her, let her call you sometimes. Good luck.
2006-07-31 13:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately NOT daily! It's not like you haven't already told her
you want more from your relationship. If you call her every
day now, you will just come across as week and needy!
Once every 3-7 days is good. It will keep some mystery
in the mix. Oh, make sure you let her be the one to initiate the
call sometimes also! If you are the only one who initiates the
calls, then you again come across as the week link.
I know it is hard, but be patient.
2006-07-31 13:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 or 2 times a day for about 30 minutes to an hour
2006-07-31 13:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is an awful long time to not be exclusive, how far do you think you can get in the relationship before somebody dies of old age? Tell her its time to make a decision, and you are sick of wondering where you stand. Don't call her, let her call you.
2006-07-31 13:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-5 times a week but 3 months seems like a long time for dating ask her again if she gives you the same excuse than move on because she might be runnin' game
2006-07-31 13:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by lovablecc1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what everyone says okay cause if u have a girlfriend call her every 2 days okay, but if not call her i was gonna say 1nce a week but i know u should call her evrytime u wanna make a date or every 3 days tops aight good luck bro
2006-07-31 13:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS ON HOW COMFORTABLE ARE YOU WITH EACH OTHER AND WHAT IS THE ATTITUDE OF THE GIRL WHEN YOU CALL HER.. CALL HER ENOUGH TO SAY HELLO AND THAT YOU MISS HER BUT NOT TOO OFTEN THAT SHE CAN FEEL A LITTLE PRESSURE YOU CALLING TOO OFTEN LIKE 20 TIMES A DAY??!! I THINK YOU CAN CALL HER MAXIMUM 3X A DAY..MORNING, LUNCH AND BEFORE THE GIRL WENT TO SLEEP.. IF YOU WANT 2X MORNING, SO YOUR THE ONE SHE HEARS WHEN SHE WAKES UP AND IN THE EVENING STILL YOUR THE ONE SHE TALKS TO BEFORE SHE SLEEPS.. THATS SWEET...
2006-07-31 13:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by maria07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 time a day
2006-07-31 13:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋