hi i just turn 17 and i have 2 young kids my girl is about 15 months old and my son is about 3 months i am living with my bf (the father of my youngest , he is 20 ) and his 3 year old son. i am trying to take care of all 3 well my bf gose to work and i still have one more year of school left i need help on what to do and how to take care of them all and go to school and keep the house clean and spend enough time with all of them ? help me !!
2006-07-31 13:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by scottygirl1623 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Just remember you can't do everything all at the same time. The house will get messy..it happens. And just because the bf goes to work doesn't mean he can't help when he comes home.
And whatever you do, stay in school, and use birth control religiously. The last thing you need is any more kids.
2006-07-31 13:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can get your GED in place of finishing high school. That will lighten your load a little. You do not have to keep an immaculate house. Try to make meals in advance and freeze them so that you can have healthy meals in the house. As for spending time with all of them, use the naps to help you. The 3 year old may or may not need a nap, if he isn't napping then spend the time the other two are napping to play with him exclusively or read to him. If it is possible you need to get a babysitter if you are wanting to go back to school for that final year. Good Luck.
2006-07-31 20:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but maybe use condoms. You wouldn't be in this position had you done just that.
Considering you are 17 with 2 kids, you can probably get some assistance from the state for childcare so that you can actually finish your HS education. Can your parents watch them for any amount of time? Does your boyfriends ex-girlfriend ever take care of her son? You need to find out what resources are available from your state.
2006-07-31 20:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by wldntulike_2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do everything, u are only young your self dont be afraid to ask for help. the 3 year old should be old enough to go to preschool or day care. maybe having the grandparents babysi teveryonce in a while might help.. plan one day a week that ur bf doesnt work and make that your family day
2006-07-31 20:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only one person and can't do it all by yourself. Check into day care so that you can go to school. Make a schedual so that you have time to do homework, play with kids, clean house, and rest. Trust me it will help. Your bf needs to help too. Kids to care if a parent is tired when they want to play. schedualling helps a lot.
2006-08-02 10:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a tip scottygirl1623..... grow up! I'm so sick and tired of teen-ager's fake questions.
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2006-07-31 20:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by beekiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend need to make a list of everything that needs to get done, then decide when it needs to get done and who can get it done. If you are not really organized and work as a team you will not get it all done and someone will feel slighted. You need to be on the same page and remember that if you and your boyfriend take care of each other everything else will fall into place.
Good luck
2006-07-31 20:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by T S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought about taking internet classes... thats what i did when my husband got a new job and had to move out of the state that we are from...doing that you can do your work at your own pace and clean inbetween...if you cant do that see about night or weekend classes... but it just depends on your major...you might will have to either quit school for a little while (like a semester or two) or put them in daycare.
2006-07-31 21:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH heres an idea maybe you should grow up and start keeping your legs closed your other questions don't quite make sense with this one, maybe you forgot to take your meds???Yea you need help but no the kind that can be given on here!
2006-07-31 20:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that grandparents love to watch their grand babies all the time. i always send my 4 month old son to his grandmas home when i need to get stuff done. dont be scared to ask. i would help if i lived close and i am sure you will find someone.
2006-07-31 20:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by taby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋