me and my husband have 6 kids and he was deported oct. of 2005. He was raised in california since he was 3 months old. He says that he is an american by heart and soul, but mexican by birth and blood. He now works in mexico 6 days a week, 13-14 hrs. a day, and gets paid $120 a week. what should I do? He is my true love and the father of my kids. Me and my kids are americans and have family up here. He is now living with his mother down there who he has never met before and it is like living with a stranger. what should I do? I promised him before we had our first child that I would never leave him behind. I never will. I just need a little help about trying to figure out the best way to keep my family together without leaving anyone. our youngest child is now turning 3 1/2 months old. she was born april 19,2006
2006-07-31 13:14:42 · 18 answers · asked by MARISSA RAMIREZ 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
I wouldnt have 6 kids. But if by some weird miracle, I got pregnant with sextuplets, I guess I would go to Mexico with him. He would have to wait 10 years before he could return legally. But instead of all that, I would bail him out of jail ($7000.00) and beg a judge to let him leave voluntarilly. They we could get his papers done legally without the waiting period. You should have started his papers when you got married. Before all the kids, then he would already be here legally. Since he is already deported, I suggest that you either go and live in Mexico with him, or pay the $3000 and have him come back illegally.
2006-07-31 13:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Girl! First, get your tubes tied and stop having children immediately! Second, leave the US immediately and go to your husband. Your vows of marriage clearly state, "for better or worse, richer or poorer.." Your place is with your husband. Third, the only way to keep your family together is to get together in Mexico. You'll have a good life there and you'll be one big happy family!
2006-07-31 14:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Texasthinkingirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand." Phillippians 4:6-7 (NLT)
Really take this scripture to heart because with God you can keep your family together despite your situation and your circumstances. When you married your husband you made a promise to him. You also made a promise to him you'll never leave him behind. Keep your promise. You have 6 children and I'm sure they all remind you of him in some why and if not they remind you of yourself. Take this time to get closer to your children and to tell them about what a great man and father he is because he loves them. I'm sure it is hard taking care of 6 children by yourself when you are used to his help. But depending on their ages, let the older ones spend the night at a friends house one night or weekend. And be sure that have some alone time even if its 15 minutes a day. But again take the scripture to heart because it can help you get through this and anything else you'll ever face in life.
1) Stop Worring and Start Praying. Don't ever think that your need is too insignificant for God's attention. He wants us to pray about everything.
2) Tell God Your Needs. Even though God is all-knowing and is well aware of your situation, he desires that you verbalize your needs to him and place them in his hands.
3) Present Your Request with Thanks. Instead of praying with feelings of doubt, we can thank God for his answers in advance because of the promises he has made to us in his Word.
4) Recieve God's Peace. God's peace will "mount a guard or garrison" around your heart and mind to keep and protect you during those difficult times in your life.
Please let me know how you are doing.
2006-07-31 13:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by desired314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Immigration Services and explain the situation. You may need to contact legal services to petition for your husband to come back into the country. Also, go the the Mexican Consulate to see what they can do. You will most likely have to get your husband a green card. My question to you is: does he have a social security card and number? If he does, he is technically an American citizen because you can only get a social security number if you are a U.S. citizen.
2006-07-31 13:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to mexico with him!
Girl, have you ever heard about BIRTH CONTROL? And,why did you marry some idiot that was illegal, to begin with? If he done been here since he was three months old, he had plenty of time to get legal, so what's his problem? His parents should not have been such pond scum and sneaked into this country!
2006-08-01 07:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by sqwirl_hater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh huh he has been here since he was 3 months old......surely that is plenty of time to get legal?? OR is it because he has a criminal record??? Move to Mexico or try getting him here legal...why he didn't take care of his citizenship is beyond me!! Why didn't you make him get legal?? Contact a good immigration lawyer....maybe they can help you.
2006-07-31 13:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Hold em Rox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it's "My husband and I.. my kids and I"
Second, he's your husband... go with him.
I wonder why was he deported... If he's married to an American, Ican't believe he woldn't be allowed to stay, especially with all the other circumstances.
2006-07-31 13:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new husband or move to Mexico.
2006-07-31 13:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by bradlandreth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Mexico to be with him Problem Solved.
2006-07-31 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you guys wait till he got deported to start worrying?
2006-07-31 13:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by cottoncandyn2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋