i think my BF is cheating on me, but i don't have proof! i don't feel good at all!
2006-07-31 13:13:12 · 23 answers · asked by seabalo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that maybe you should sit down and have a good chat with him,and tell him how you feel.If some how ,you still feel that he's hiding somet thing from you,than take control of the situation.Don't worry if you don't have proof or what so ever,he should be make you feel special,if he's not doing that,then don't hold on to him.
2006-07-31 13:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by sylvestercheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to investigate on this one......watch the way he acts around you. Is he paying less attention to you? Is he daydreaming a lot? Are you and him less sexually active? Is he gone more often? These are the questions that you should ask when observing him. And if you can get in contact with his friends and find things out about him. Most times if you have the feeling he's cheating on you then it's probably true.
2006-07-31 20:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by yotazama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart... I had been going out with this guy for a year and half and i thought he would never cheat on me. Little by little there were signs and i kinda of thought something was funny.. LIke he wouldn't answer his phone after 11 and would only call me at certian times. I know how you feel and how bad it sucks. Im hurt so much more now cuz he told me he was cheating on me after we broke up. I would break up or go on a break and take some time apart.
2006-07-31 20:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man or woman who breaks trust is not the type of person you should waste your time on. Confront your BF with your suspicians and why you feel this way. Give him a chance to defend or confirm your suspicians. If you don't like the answer or still don't believe him leave him. No man is worth being miserable for.
2006-07-31 20:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you reason to be suspicious? Or are you usually just supicious without reason? If he has given you reason, you should "set him up." Have a person you know he might like, appraoch him or open a chat with him on line and see if he takes the bait. Just be prepared for the real answer.
My daughter caught her husband setting up a myspace page and set up a fake profile to see if he would chat with the girl and arrange to meet her. He failed the test. She was expecting Twins at the time!
If he has given you no reason to believe he is cheating, I would say, find a hobby and work on self esteem issues.
2006-07-31 20:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Tell him what you feel. Maybe there is nothing going on after all. Communication is a key to good relationship.
2006-07-31 20:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by pm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneak around and look for suspicious signs, and if you think you have the appropriate proof, dump him!!
2006-07-31 20:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what you can do to get proof, if not try confronting him about it! Good luck..
2006-07-31 20:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until u have enough proof
2006-07-31 20:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by tolu_thegame10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still like him then you need to confront him just be like i need to ask you a question and if its just false suspision then i still really like you but i think your cheating on you is it true
but think about how much you like him cause he may not be worth your time
2006-07-31 20:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋