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(this isn't actually me, i'm just curious =))

2006-07-31 13:00:45 · 27 answers · asked by veevee 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

a1quick57, it really isn't actually me!
i'm not even GOING OUT on a date yet (i'm in my mid-teens, so it does make sense =)). i just wanted to know...and thanks for the advice anyways

2006-07-31 13:25:36 · update #1

27 answers

Always have respect for yourself first! Don't reveal everything about yourself on the first date. An heir of mystery is a woman's best tool to keep him wanting to know you more. Besdies, you should be getting to know him as well. Do not do or go anywhere you are not comfortable with. Keep your cell phone close and a lil' pocket money for a cab ride home if you need it. Make sure he abides by your curfew time (this shows respect for you and towards your parents as well). A handshake, lite hug (no body pressing involved) or a lite peck on the cheek is appropriate for a goodnight farewell. Be confident yet demure. This'll throw him off and you want to keep him a lil' off balanced and wanting. Any and all first dates should take place in highly public areas to keep him honest and you safe. Above all, enjoy yourself and have fun!

2006-07-31 13:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0 0

First do not go out with someone you do not know.
Second get an exact idea of where you are going, and what you are going to do

Third make sure it is a public place close to town or buses or taxis
make sure you take money for cab or bus fare if needed.
Remember you are in control of your date. You decide before you go what you will and wont do, and do not cross the line.

2006-07-31 13:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0 0

Realize that you BOTH are really nervous on the first date...don't expect anything...just try to be yourself. My first date we didn't talk much at first, but then got into conversations about where we came from, etc and after a little while really started liking each other.
BTW-we didn't even kiss on the first date, just hugged. So no pressure with that either...if he's pushing for it, that's a red flag!

2006-07-31 13:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by greenguy415 3 · 0 0

make sure you have an escape plan if you don't like the guy, but don't be mean.
First dates are about getting to know each other. Ask some questions that show some depth to your charactor. Like....
Where do you see yourself in five years. If the guy says, drunk then you know he is shallow.

Have fun and laugh. but don't put out.
Make a new friend and see what happens.

2006-07-31 13:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0 0

You can't get pregnant with your jeans on, but you can get pregnant the first time.

Take some change or the cell phone in case the put out or get out conundrum arises.

Have a good time, be home by ten thirty or you don't have a second date until you are nineteen.

2006-07-31 13:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be yourself, and make sure the guy isn't faking you out either. It's best to like eachother for who your are than for what your aren't. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. If a guy really likes you, he would never do anything that would make you feel uncomfortable on purpose. Speak your mind and make your boundaries clear.

2006-07-31 13:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by ToxicBeautyQueen 2 · 0 0

Be yourself,
have good manners,
don't just talk about yourself,
ask the person questions that he would be comfortable answering,
don't chew gum (I KNOW YOU WON'T)
don't tell your life story .. and all the bad things that guys have done to you, etc
don't gossip
don't interrupt
don't get drunk
or do drugs,
don't have sex
don't have sex
don't have sex
don't have sex
DON'T ALMOST HAVE SEX, DON;T
DON'T STAY OUT ALL NIGHT,

WEAR CLEAN UNDERWEAR (JUST KIDDING)

HAVE FUN,
p.s. If he takes you to dinner, just tell him drinks and appetiser are plenty,, you will be full, and save him some money,

2006-07-31 13:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0 0

If you wouldn't be able to come home and tell your parents what you did then don't do it.
Keep your sense of self, don't ever do something you'd be ashamed of later.
Know what you want and don't want, and be sure enough of yourself to be able to say so.
Don't care what others might or might not think, be yourself, if your date can't handle it, then that's not the one for you anyway.

2006-07-31 13:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by hisladytish 3 · 0 0

if he tries to kiss you but he kisses your cheek don't say "is this the first time you kissed a girl", also buy him a little something (guys don't always have to), dress nicely and don't look at anybody but him. (you can but like don't look at any other guys) oh and be your self and don't kiss till you really like him, and don't dress over the top, make him wont more.

2006-07-31 13:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tegan 3 · 0 0

just b urself and have fun but no to much fun! if he isnt the rite guy than dont try 2 change ursel the rite guy will come at the rite time

2006-07-31 13:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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