would you feel wierd if the opsit sex just walked up to and and started talking?

Question

i asked how do i meet this girl and thay say just walk up to her, but shes across the street and i dunno about but i would feel wierd

what do i do/?

Answer 1

Just do it. What have you got to lose?

Answer 2

hmmm... yeah try and do something to draw her attention to you and if it was planned you'll have more confidence. just see how she's doing and what she's up to. If she's in to you she'll probably look at you but turn her face alittle just pay attention to her body language.like if she's shy around you try and make a move on her.

If she's friendly but not sending right body language she may be interested but faithful to someone else. and if she's bitchy she might just be a beach. and then you might have to vacate the area

Or if she's just friend material a good way to approach this situation would try and see something that she has that is interesting like a bike or ipod and just play it cool ask if you can use it for a little while (if she has been across from you for a long time there shouldn't be a problem) and she and you will have a sort of bond then take it from there as in invite her to things (not dates) like outings

Answer 3

The thing is, do you see her often? Is there many opportunities to cross her path? Maybe you could just catch her attention at first, then slowly get her used to u? Could u just "bump" into her one time, then cross paths the next, maybe make small talk the next?
You don't just want to go over there and push yourself on her, might scare her away. Let her know your a constant first, just make sure your giving her the impression you want her to have of you. I mean, you don't want to be a sidewalk skateboarder and she's some type of office worker.
Remember to be yourself, and if it's meant to be it will be.

Answer 4

Well, you have to be a little more clever than that. Pick a place like a library, grocery store, book store and strike up a conversation that is friendly and related to the place you are in. I have always done that! It is fun but you have to be sincere and not act like you are stalking. And what ever you do, don't do it on the street.....you may find yourself arrested!

Answer 5

She lives accross the street? If so, knock on her door or wait until you catch her outside and pretend like you need to borrow something...like you need a screwdriver in a hurry and can't find yours...Maybe you will end up striking up a conversation with her while you are over there. Good luck!

Answer 6

well, not really, females do it all the time, but as a guy, you should really get some sort of a sign that it is ok with her, if you look in her eyes and she notices you and gives you a lingering look, then it would be ok, if she gives you that phuck off look , I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, I wouldn't read into it that she wants to speak to you. better to move on from there. it is always appropriate to get close enuf to speak out loud without actually speaking to her though. rejection is short lived regret last forever.

Answer 7

Say something like," My mom's making a cake, and she ran out of flower...can I borrow some?" Take it from there. Ask her subtle questions. Does she have a dog? Ask her what breed it is. Just talk.

Answer 8

no, especially if you are neighbours, just say ur tryna get to know her because you live so close and could be good friends.

Answer 9

just be yourself and go up to her and talk. be confident

confidence is the key

Answer 10

no, I'll feel flattered

same sex though, there i would feel creeped out