we had some trust issues with girlfriend actually cause she made some mistakes earlier, and after i wanted her to delete some messenger contacts which she never conacts and are useless in my opininon, she got angry and after a week she wanted a time out, and i'm full of question marks here, now we are in time out but, is it fair ???? could i have been that wrong????
2006-07-31 12:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by shefe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She isn't ready for a committed relationship. She is getting her validation from guys on line.
Her time out is her issue. It is her way of avoiding responsibilities that come with a committed relationship.
If you are young this happens. If you guys are 30 then geesh she might never grow up.
Just learn from experiences. And that you can love someone and it not work out. Don't settle for an insencere imature relationship.
2006-07-31 12:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From a guy's perspective...
You've probably pushed the trust rebuilding issue too far. You got her pissed off for making an issue out of something remedial. What you did is not how you're going have her rebuild trust with you, but it's a easy way to loose her completely.
You both need to back off a bit or your relationship will not go anywhere good.
2006-07-31 20:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't trust her get rid of her. If not let her keep her messeger contacts
2006-07-31 19:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it was none of your business to tell her to delete something of hers.
even if she didnt really talk to them... you still should of mine ur business.. and dont get jealous if it was a boy. so yeah..u did do something wrong.
2006-07-31 19:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lynette♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋