do you have any standards in a relationship?

Question

like do you believe in saving yourself, are you wiatting to kiss unitl you are married. does your religious beliefs affect it?

Answer 1

No kissing till marriage? Planning on being a nun? Just kidding obviously your quite young, and a young lady? Keep yourself pure as long as you can manage to. There are good things to be said for it but don't wait until marriage to begin kissing. There are good things to say about that too!

Answer 2

As far as standards in a relationship I would say that putting out on a first date is a big plus. Saving myself?? For what?? The way I see it we are nothing more than animals and we might as well screw our brains out while we have the chance. Kissing is a waste of time and should never be done in the first place so dont even worry about that. And no if my religious beliefs had anything to do with it I would be going around naked with a roach clip and five buds.

Answer 3

well, I would stay pure until marriage (see Exodus 20:14 & Deuteronomy 5:18). I don't know if I would save kissing for then, but I would save oral sex (that's Frenching, right?) for then. & I would date/marry within my denomination (2 Corinthians 6:14). Because say one parent went to church on Saturday, & the other went to church on Sunday. Say the Saturday-one wanted their child to be baptized @ 12 or some other age where the kid studied & understood a lot of the Bible. & the Sunday-one wanted the kid baptized as a little infant, where the baby doesn't even know how to talk, much less what's going on. Wouldn't that cause some problems? Take those boundaries into consideration...

Answer 4

I do believe in saving myself for marriage. And I don't think that I should even date until I'm in college or marry until I have a career. It does have to do with my religious beliefs but also my goals for life

Answer 5

A good sence of humor, ability to not be upset by my moods, likeness in political leaning, open to new adventures and new experiences, sexual compatability, religiously open minded....all are a MUST!

I tried the whole "wait until you're at least engaged" thing...once...immediately I knew this was NOT the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with!

I do believe in committed relationships, with an open mind and a willingness to change.
I do NOT believe in cheating...EVER!!
I can't tollerate liars either.

Answer 6

I have standards but it's entirely unrelated to religion. I don't save it for marriage, since the only difference between boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife is a ring. We do whatever we want together, married or not. However, I am fully devoted to my partner and cheating is inexcusable and a disgusting act. I am a hardcore monogamist.

Answer 7

There is a part of me that wishes that l saved myself for my husband, but at the same time l don't.But kissing, no.l know kissing can lead to having sex, but there is also something called self control.and no my religion has nothing to do with it, but self respect does.

Answer 8

my religious beliefs have nothing to do with how I act. I don't believe in sex until you are at least engaged. But kissing is ok.

Answer 9

I only have one standard in a relationship, ANY relationship, whether it is a romantic, personal, social or professional: People, treat me the way you want to be treated, or else.

Answer 10

I'll wait until marriage to have sex. I wouldn't necessarily wait until marriage to kiss, though (nor have I in the past).

Answer 11

"waiting to kiss until you are married"? talk about a boring date.

Seriously though, you may love this person with all your heart, but what if you find out that you are completely sexually incompatible?

Your drive is bigger than his/hers, your partner is incapable of bringing you to orgasm, you want to spend hours teasing him with foreplay, and he wants to get right down to business, you want to experience anal and he doesn't, etc.

Find out who you are both sexually and spiritually before you tie yourself down to someone "til death do you part"