a question for the guys.....?
if you were messing around( not actually seeing or dating) with a girl and she only let you get to a certain point before actually having sex. and she stopped it every single time right before you were about to do the deed, how would this make you feel or what would you think? and why would you keep going back knowing tthat its not going to happen??
I am the female in this situation!
I dont know why I do it. I guess i think that its just fun.
He seems to like it too.... that is untill i stop him, but why does he keep coming back?
2006-07-31 12:07:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has gotten farther with you then anyone else probably and he is thinking that if he might just get a little further next time.
2006-07-31 12:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't keep coming back, and everytime he does you likely interpret his actions as those of a fool at your disposal. I hate it for him and I urge you to stop this practice. With some guys that can be a very dangerous thing, and since you never know for sure how another person processes information, it's a habit best stopped now before someone gets hurt.
2006-07-31 19:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy - but
He thinks you will mess up at one point and let him go all of the way, also sometimes it is fun to get to a certain point and then stop... it still feels good until that point.
Don't do it, 'till YOU are ready.
2006-07-31 19:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because probably you're teasing him in a way. Guys like to be teased sexually. When you're having fun, so is he. Guys don't stop until they get sex. So yeah.
2006-07-31 19:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop doing it. You're playing with a loaded gun there. There will be a time where he says enough and now or never.
2006-07-31 19:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I give a gurl 3 nights after 3 attempts I ditch her *** !!!
2006-07-31 19:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he keeps coming back because he's a loser. i would have dumped you after the first rejection, maybe the second. not more than that. either change your attitude or change guys if he doesnt suit you
2006-07-31 19:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i was not going out with a girl i would not really care if they stopped me. but if i was going out i would care.
2006-07-31 19:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by johnharper13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's with all the questions just for guys???
2006-07-31 19:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hope springs eternal. And you have great t its?
2006-07-31 19:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by abbeyroad54321 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋