okay well me and my boyfriend have been together 3 months now.. and i really love him... he has done so much for me and im only living for him. He is already thinking about marriage and is starting to plan our wedding. But i am still not so sure he is totally in love with me the way i love him. Like i would take a bullet for this guy he's just that amazing.... but idk i just dont know
2006-07-31 12:03:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anna mae 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Time is the only real test. 3 months isn't much time to evaluate him as a life partner. Give it AT LEAST a year. By then you should know most of his personality plusses AND minuses and can make a logical decision. In the meantime, don't set yourself up to be so committed to the living arrangement that, if you decide he is not right for you, pulling yourself out of the situation becomes a problem. That happens more often than I care to think where two people are living together AS IF they are married. One decides that maybe it isn't right for him/her but finds pulling out of the arrangement a problem.
2006-07-31 12:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes some time to get to know someone! Take it slow and make sure you are compatible after the new love endorphins wear off. Relationships are hard work!
2006-07-31 19:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by eva diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have a connection that binds you together.Don't even think about marriage for now,just be the best of friends and keep each other safe.Love ya kiddo.
2006-08-01 16:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by coolkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no one is right for you right now. To say that you only live for him is kind of codependent behavior. You shouldn't totally lose yourself in order to love someone else. If you doubt how he feels for you that is another bad sign..not of how he feels but of your emotional maturity. If he has never given you cause to doubt but yet you worry then there is a problem with you.
2006-07-31 19:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to gave him a test ?
If he dont answer that question ?
He been cheating on you or Just getting with somebody?
2006-07-31 19:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some more time with him...ask him questions that will really make him think about the relationship
2006-07-31 19:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Francis P. Wittlekins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither do We but take a chance on him.
2006-07-31 19:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋