when your still in love with your ex but he is loving the single life. Do I move on and find new love or do I waite?
2006-07-31 11:56:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what you do. Kill him. If you don't miss him, it wasn't meant to be, if you do, then kill yourself and you'll be together in the after life.
2006-07-31 11:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone; you learn to be very patient and understanding. If you really love this person; tell them, they need to know how you really feel. Perhaps it was a misunderstanding or something else that has changed, when you both decided to end it all. I'm still in love with my ex; its so hard to get them out of my mind. I've even had dreams of us and I wake up hot and sweaty. My point is that I've been partying big time; because the pain of not having them in my life is too great and too soon to bare. When my friends say hey come on let's go; I say heck yea. I don't want to be along thinking, why didn't it work out. Your ex could miss you just as much as you do him. Take a chance and call him; what do you have to lose?
2006-07-31 12:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what, the odd chance that he might change, not likely. If he wants to be single, and it doesn't include you, why be a wallflower.
There are thousands of men, or at least hundreds, who are looking for a girl like you, so get out there and find yourself one.
Life is for living, not for sitting around waiting for some dumb dude, to change his mind. What if he does change his mind, but it's not you he wants to be with.
So live your own life, and have fun. You may not pick a winner right off, but should have fun, looking through what is available.
2006-07-31 12:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he worth the trouble? move on in life, there are surely lot better guys than him. He wants to be single doesn't he? Maybe trying to get close could end up spoiling things and leaving a bad taste for the two of you.
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2006-08-01 05:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Starreply 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalk him. Show up at every club he goes to. Every bar. When he is making out with some floozy, pop up and yell "boo".
Just kidding. I've been outside working and it is very hot today!
Move on...now isn't the time. Maybe you will hook up some other time, but in all reality, you will find someone better. It will just take time to get over your feelings...which you may never do if you really loved him. Love is tough. Makes your chest hurt. Once you are happily married, you will be surprised at how pleasant it all is in the end.
2006-07-31 12:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no life is too short to wait around!!..love sucks i know it sucks not being with someone you love but what is worse is being with someone you love who doesn't love you back in the same way you love them! you need to move on because if he loved you like you say you love him then he would be with you he wouldn't be out living and loving the single life! I'm sorry your heart is hurting and i hope things work out for you good luck!!
2006-07-31 11:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and date around too. You never know what you will find. And believe me if u ex loves you and it is meant to be he will be back. But in the mean time don't put ur heart in a jail cell, that's not fair.
2006-07-31 12:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was very recent wait say six months. If you were pretty serious to begin with. Then find someone else cause he's probably not ready for a commitment . And if you still want him then maybe seeing you with someone else will make ehim want you. And maybe by then you just won't care. And you'll be better off.
2006-07-31 12:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find a man who will love you as much as you love him.
Waiting and hoping to change someone is not good. There are too many divorces because people settle and they shouldn't.
You deserve someone to love you and love being with only YOU! Good luck!
2006-07-31 12:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he the Ex Lose the Zero it's one sided Move on
2006-07-31 12:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find yourself some fun. Why wait for a guy who is not thinking about you?
2006-07-31 12:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋