He said he loves me alot. He tells me all the time. He said he would wait on me as long as he can. What should i do?????
2006-07-31 11:43:36 · 17 answers · asked by lil_fine11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important lesson you can learn about boys is not to give them control over your life. You should continue doing whatever and if when you're 15 or 16 and you're both interested go for it. But don't "wait" for him because believe me no matter how much he "loves" you he's not going to wait until he's 18 or 19.
2006-07-31 11:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "wait" for him. Live your life for a year or two and if he is still around - then maybe date him. To "wait" is silly because then you are "dating" him in your mind (sort of) to pacify you until you are age appropriate. What happens if in a year or two one of you isn't interested? Someone could get hurt. Flirt with the idea later - not now. And think about this, when you are 15 - he will be 18 and then it is statutory rape.
I'm sorry, but the truth is hurtful sometimes. Good luck.
2006-07-31 19:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by purple_amanecer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he should be waiting for u your only 14
when your 16 he would be like 19 that's ttly illegal
and your too young to be truly in love it might be just a crush and 2 years is a long time for a guy that age to wait dont get attached cause you will be crushed if he get another girl in that two year time spand.
2006-07-31 18:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by simsplay06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are going to wait for him at least date other people until then. I say don't wait b/c he might find someone new.I waited for a guy like that and he found someone new. And I was 15 and he was 18.
2006-07-31 18:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... thats difficult. I'm 14 too and I recently got out of a relationship with a 16 yr old guy. If he wants to wait until you're older, be really good friends until your 15th b-day!
Then jump on him. lol. :D
2006-07-31 18:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love him and he loves u wait and don't wait what the differents between (he is 17 and u r 14) and (he is 18,19 and u 15,16) i don't see any differents well i see sex in there, kisses touching.
its Ur choice he is not the only nice dude
"there is so many fishes in the sea,as there is so many boys and gils in the world"
P.s. listen to "THE MOOSE"
2006-07-31 18:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young to date so you should wait until you are atleast 16, then see if you still have those feelings for him.
2006-07-31 18:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by lorihurley03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's lots of girlies out there, you are way to young, and at 16 he will be charged w/rape and molestation. Wait until your at least 17 before thinking about boys.
2006-07-31 18:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to school..enjoy being a 14 yr old and stop trying to grow up so fast. 17 is too old for you. he is preparing to go places you cannot go. you do not need children.. aids.. or any other problems. what you should do is find a boy more your age..if okay with parents. you are not suspose to be doing any serious dating right now. or you will be sorry.
2006-07-31 18:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 14's too young. I'd wait for him, if he said wait for me.
2006-07-31 18:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋