ok, recently i have a problem. I liked a guy for ages, but nothing happened and he treated me like ****, but since then we have become good friends. and then when he told me he had a girlfriend, i couldnt help but feel jealous. what does this mean?? i dunno whether i like him again? what do you think. please, i would appreciate the help.
2006-07-31 11:35:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
him and his gf have jsut split up
and its been about 6 months since i fancied him
2006-07-31 11:49:41 · update #1
Sweetie-Once you like a guy he is kind of on your list the rest of your life. Circumstances may show you that he is not the one for you, but your natural instincts still win out sometimes. If a guy ever treats you badly, you need to go around your feelings and respect yourself enough to not follow through. It is only natural for you to still like him. Don't feel guilty about that. Just don't act on your feelings and find a guy that will treat you better.
2006-07-31 11:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing mind games with you. First treating you badly, then turning around being buddy buddy with you and hurting you by telling you about his girlfriend. This dude certainly knows you're sprung on him and for some cruel reason is trying to hurt you. He is no friend of yours. You should ditch him as soon as possible. But if you wanna play games, then switch on him by suddenly acting all distant and moody. Tell him you need space. Just imagine that he is that annoying guy 'Bob' who always hits on you but that you are really not attracted to. Be a demanding diva and throw tantrums. Oh, and date a lot and tell him about it every time he asks why you are SO moody and unavailable. lol
2006-07-31 11:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,u have a problem,i understand,but u r not the only one in this world with problems.so sit down calm down and think.if u really want him,just be positive n be urself.have faith in ur love'if he really loves u he'll get back to u.or it means he was never there for u.u have something even much better.u said he treated u bad.r u sure he would'nt do it in future,if time has wounded u ,then time would itself heal u up.so wait for ur time.if ur love i strue u'll get what u want,but if it is only attractio then u'll forget him.so be patient.mean time u can do anything that he likes,show hiim how much u care for hiim.gie him the confidence that u can really take good care of him and he can be really happy with u.show him that u r the oly prson for h im in tis whole world.ok.take care.bcos u need to take careof the people u love,even if they dont take care of u.ok
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
CHRIS
2006-07-31 11:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is natural for a woman to be jealous over another girl when she has the guy you want. To find out if you really like him, try dating one of his friends, that is richer than him, or has a better car, or if he looks better. Make sure he See's you when you are on your date, and judge his reaction. If he seems jealous, then you still like him. If he has no response to the guy you are dating, then you don't like him, move on, you already got a great start....
2006-07-31 11:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on him and he has a place in your heart. You would be demonstrating a lot of self love, high self esteem and self respect if you would place your energies on someone who is equally crazy about you and not some guy who thought enough of you to treat you like ****. You get what you expect to give and people treat you the way you purposely or inadvertently train them to. Please don't like him, you are just being self destructive to do so.
2006-07-31 11:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ofcourse u still hav feelins for him cuz u asked 4 help so tell him how u feel b4 its 2 late and probably something might work out 4 u. Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-07-31 11:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by slimredz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel jealous, too! For now though, it might be best to distance yourself a bit from him- and, with your friends' help, try to meet someone new who is even more wonderful!
Best wishes!
from a grandma-aged person
2006-07-31 11:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you like crap before, and now you like him? I question your taste in men.
Anyway, if you got jealous of him having a girl friend, then you must like him somewhat.
As he is taken already, I suggest you find some boy, who isn't taken and with whom, you can have a good relationship.
2006-07-31 11:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you used to like him and now are a friend in his life, but that doesnt mean that just because youre now his friend that the feelings you had before have died, the old feelings are still there somewhere and it's possible that you actually wish you had the girlfriend title instead of the friend title in his life....
2006-07-31 11:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just were hoping for more and rejection in any form sucks.. Remain friends you can not predict the future, he might look beyond and see you in a diferent light someday.
2006-07-31 11:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by TxScorpio40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋