ok my bf thinks that am going to cheat on him and go out with another guy and i did my best to not make him think that but he still dosnt belive me everytime i tell him do u trust me do u belive me and he says yes i do but dont get it i did alot of thinks to not make him think am cheating on him or that am going out with another guy but still what should i do plzzz help
2006-07-31 11:34:33 · 6 answers · asked by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like he is very insecure. Perhaps you should think about dating someone who is more mature in their thinking? My thought is that he will learn that his fears (and behaviour) are not appropriate when he learns that it drives others away. He will learn to calm down - but it will take time.
A sound relationship is based on mutual trust. It does not seem as if you have that situation at present.
2006-07-31 11:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by qreus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to stay with him then he has to start believing u. Or else its not going to work out between the two of u. So tell him that give him an ultimatum. Because if things continue like this then both of u are going to be very unhappy. The longer u wait the harder its going to get.
2006-07-31 18:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure, but you are too. You need to stop asking him if he trusts you and believes you as that in itself always makes the other person feel as if they are being cheated on. You need to realize that if you are not cheating on him, then have enough faith in him to belive that himself and not you pounding it into him every time he turns around. Lay back, enjoy your relationship and stop worrying about if he thinks you are cheating. As long as you are not, then that will shine through. You are putting the doubt in his mind by constantly asking him and trying to force him to believe your not.
2006-07-31 18:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by sofballinchic12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's just insecure... maybe he's had previously relationships where he was cheated on and it really broke him down.. i've been down that road, i know my gf is loyal but i'm still always nervous... maybe it's not you he doesn't trust, maybe it's other guys
2006-07-31 18:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by im a mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can 'do'. He is just paranoid. You can try to help him put aside his fears, but it sure sounds like he will not let them go.
2006-07-31 18:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him right and go out wit me ;)
2006-07-31 18:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by silenwil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋