Is it true that closure helps a broken heart heal? A relationship that lasted for over a year abruptly ends with no explaination. It been 2 months since my ex just stopped talking to me. I want to know what happened cuz it haunts me everyday.... Should I make that call so I can healthy move on to a better relationship?
2006-07-31 11:34:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's stopped talking without any explanation, is he worth the trouble, is he really good enough for you? Forget him and move on.
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2006-08-01 05:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
you should call him. it's your right to find out what happened because 1 year is quite a long time.
About closure...it never "healed" my heart but it made it more easy for me to move on and continue my life Evan if some feelings remained alive. Time is what heals the heart but try to keep in mind that a relationship is not like a vacation..when it's over you take all your stuff and leave...you always leave something behind...like a little piece of your heart...you will never be the same again (in a good or a bad way..it depends on the person..some become better persons and some worst)
You shoul talk to him because he owns you an explanation. It will help you in your future relationships so you will not make the same mistake twice (in case it's something you did)
2006-07-31 18:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Diana_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't see this person unless you're willing to run the risk of becoming involved again. If you must know then call them, but do not go over there. There is a reason it ended. For good or bad I wouldn't go back. Let your heart heal.
2006-07-31 18:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by superdavefive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes closure helps... and sometimes it hurts. You're going to want to know. Make one call -- and if he doesn't tell you in that ONE call, move on without an explanation.
Sometimes a "rebound relationship" helps.
2006-07-31 18:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The soul mate relationship isn’t hard to figure out.
But, sometimes, we need to regroup within ourselves to realize why things just never seem to be within our reach.
Fairy tales are fairy tales, but why not turn your life into your own fairy tale and live happily ever after?
2006-08-02 07:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up a story that you can live with... due to his life threatening illness "billy" had to suddenly end his lengthy relationship with "jill" because he couldnt stand to have "jill" see him fade away like that. He can only hope that someday "jill" will be able to forgive him and know how much he loved her. blah blah blah
2006-07-31 18:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on him. You know that and know that's why he stopped talking to you. Why did you cheat on him ? Why ?
2006-07-31 18:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant always get what you want
2006-07-31 18:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋