ok i have been seeing this guy for 3 months hes a bit younger than i am. we hang out all the time we have a wonderful relationship we began this as friends but it has gone further. we tell each other " i love you" but there are alot of reasons that we cant actually be together right now, good reasons not b.s. but the problem is that i care about him ALOT and i have only been with him since the beggining he hasnt been with just me but hasnt lied to me either. now i love this guy and eventually things will be ok for us but how can i handle this in the meantime im goin nuts
2006-07-31 11:21:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest way to deal with it is to just keep thinking about the positive which is that it will all work out in the long run. If you too stay together and it turns into something long term than it does. You can't force anything to happen but just let things happen that's the best way for everything to go. It does take patience and tolerance to not think about what you want to happen, but just try to stick with it, and have fun enjoy life don't dwell on the what if. I hope this helps.
2006-07-31 11:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force anyone to do anything. Explain to him how you are feeling and let the chips fall where they may.
2006-07-31 18:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋