does my daughter sleep with drug dealers?

Question

she is 17 and i finally got her into rehab. she says she is pregnant with a boy from school, but she was hanging out with this drug dealer people tell me. do girls routinely sleep with drug dealers? my friends say it is probably the drug dealer because girls do this--let me know people--i am a stupid 80's guy

Answer 1

If you sleep with the drug dealer, you get free drugs. It's pretty common knowledge. So if she wantsdrugs and doesn't have money, you better believe she's doing all sorts of crazy stuff with that drug drealer.

My advice is to get her tested for the major diseases right away. If she's sleeping with a drug dealer while she's on drugs, chances are she's not using protection, which would explain the pregnancy. Pray to god she hasn't caught anything serious (aside from the baby) and if your lucky, the serious stuff will be caught early and you'll be able to treat it.

Answer 2

It's not unheard of for a girl to sleep with a dealer for "free" drugs. Right now, I wouldn't worry about it. She's pregnant, in rehab, and probably very hurt, confused and scared. She'll tell you more if you just support her and help her with her struggles. Don't be "one of them" right now, just be her Dad and let her know she's loved even though she's made some very bad choices. Drugs probably had something to do with her getting preg either way, the specifics can wait and might not even matter in the long run. Good luck and thank you for being a real father who cares.

Answer 3

No one can tell you if your daughter is pregnant by a drug dealer. I'm sure that many girls do stupid things and sleep with the wrong people. The only thing you can do is believe her word, and when the baby is born have a paternity test done on the boy who she says got her pregnant. If she's lying you will know or she will tell you beforehand so you don't go through with having her get the paternity test done.

Answer 4

there might be a chance not all girls will sleep with older or drug guys but there cases that there are...have u met the boy from school...or seen him if he is the father of ur daughters child u do have a right to meet him so ask to meet him if she doesn't want u too there might be a chance that there is no boy from school and she doesn't want u to know that...but if u do meet him makes sure he is involved with ur daughters life and of his unborn child that's should make u sure that he is the father...if it turns out to be a drug dealer or sum older guy then make sure u keep your daughter under check and u might also need to call the cops because she is still a minor and is considered rape

Answer 5

this question really struck me as funny. Nobody sets out to "routinely sleep with drug dealers". But if your daughter was hanging out with that crowd, chances are, she did. But it doesn't make it her baby daddy.

But if you really want to be a good dad - and granddad - stick by her and take her word for it. Judging and accusing her will only put distance between you two. If she's in rehab - she needs you more than ever. It doesn't matter who is the father of this baby, your daughter is the mother, that's all that counts.

Answer 6

In the drug world anything is possible, yes some girls to sleep with thier dealers. My heart goes out to you. My son has been clean for 5 years now...As a parent it was a heartbreaking experience. Bottom Line...It really doesn't matter who the father is. It is your Grandbaby. (D_H Stop being so judgemental, as a mother of 5 children sometimes things are not in our control as parents...My son got into trouble while attending a major university, with a full ride academic scholarship.)

Answer 7

youre an 80's guy ?. Im a 60's guy and hell yes they do. If she is in Rehab you can bet your last dollar it is the Dealers child. I am sure you do not want to hear it. but thr truth is the best way to answer. who knows the guy from school maybe her dealer. Whatever you do dont pressure her when she comes home. good luck

Answer 8

All girls do not sleep with drug dealers, but it sounds like your daughter is. Try moving so she will not raise her child around drug dealers.

Answer 9

She probably is and dosnt know who the father of the baby is...just keep asking her. Not all people sleep with drug dealers but if they want drugs they will.

Answer 10

Well..if she is hanging out with him..odds are shes sleeping with him. The real question is: Where the hell were you? You should have been a better father to her by knowing what she was up to and by being more involved in her life. I hope you realize..this is ALL YOUR FAULT!!! Good parents who are active in theor kids lives and teach by example dont have 17 year old drug addicted pregnant kids. People might disagree, but I am surrounded by kids every day and have not YET met a good set of parents with a screwed up kid. Look at the kids from columbine...I bet their parents thought they were good parents...until they realized their kids were doing tons of crap they never knew about. Obviously they screwed up somewhere. Good luck with your soon to be welfare child and retarded(because of mothers drug use)grandkid.