what are you girls searching in men on first sight??are you loking on face,shape,ham,walk or are you waiting for the first words??
what's your secret??
2006-07-31 10:58:27 · 21 answers · asked by J&F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First question, answer is," You have your eye's closed."
I am a guy so on to the next question.
I am a guy so on to the next question.
My secret is find your on way like every other guy has done for the past like couple thousand years I guess. You see a girl, you like girl, you go ask girl if she likes to eat and take her to get that food, then be nice, gentlemen and if she likes you then she will let you know. Good luck.
2006-07-31 11:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're either looking for girls in the wrong places, or you just don't have a great disposition, or perhaps you've just met a bunch of shallow girls.
As far as me, I think people are initially attracted to people by looks (for myself personally nice eyes and a cute smile really attract me to a guy).... but personality is far more important. If a guy has some confidence, a good sense of humor, and is honest and respectful, then there should be no problem.
Good luck finding that special girl! And good luck to all the ladies in finding a good man... and of course good luck to everyone lady who is looking for a lady and every man who is looking for a man. Wish everyone the best of happiness wherever you find it!
2006-07-31 11:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no secret. GIrls are just bitches. Most girls think they deserve more than they do, so they want some perfect guy that makes lots of money cause girls are very materialistic, I don't care what they say. Drive a nice car, have money to go shopping, they don't want some guy who pays attention to them, makes them laugh and has stuff in common with. Good Luck
2006-07-31 11:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find a girl that you like, YOU should approach her.Girls like guys who are brave enough to initiate conversations. Most girls/women go for looks (just like everyone else) AT FIRST. However, attraction can be killed by a bad personality (which I hope you dont have). Nowadays, EVERYONE is looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend and alot of us are making the wrong decisions.
Your goal shouldnt be to "find a girlfriend"---instead, you want to find a GOOD one. Believe me, it's worth the wait.
2006-07-31 11:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls want to be taken care of. We look for men who can be compassionate but strong and will not let their pride/ego get the better of them. You need more than good looks to keep a good woman. Just as men find confident women attractive, we also look for men who are confident and will defend the honor of their woman, no matter how much "the guys" make fun of him.
2006-07-31 11:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lily Rose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not hard to find a Galfriend, dere re million Single Gals everywhere.. Its Just depend On How U Act N behave to Gals, Just try 2 be Nyc wiv Gals, Show dem ur smart n sensible... GALs love smart Guys
2006-07-31 11:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're worried about that "on first sight" first impression sort of thing, then just make sure you brush your teeth, wash your hands, comb your hair, wear clean clothes and don't have any offensive body odor. Make the most of what you have, and then let your true inner self shine through!
2006-07-31 11:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by ziz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go join activities. find eachother. dont be looking in the wrong places. the wrong places would be dating sites, anything on the net.
Help a girl that has a huge pile to carry (ask first to help before giving help). Just try to get their attention in a way of helping them. Like after helping her ask her if she needs more help with things or something. anything to get the conversation going. later ask her to get some cofee or something.
2006-07-31 11:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I won't lie.. I look at appearances... but that only goes so far. You have to make me laugh.. or at least have a fun sense of humor... but it is different from Girl to girl.. I think confidence is key in pretty much all situations though.
2006-07-31 11:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by ice_sickle007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit looking is the best way. Don't be over eager or over zealous. Be gentle, honest and kind...if you find that women don't like that manner, keep on looking.
2006-07-31 11:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋