2006-07-31 10:50:57 · 58 answers · asked by pepperkagome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loved you he wouldn't try to pry your legs open before he makes a real commitment (marriage).
2006-07-31 10:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by FM?FU! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain What u fink About the whole sex idea, try explain to him U aint ready at the moment. Its take two 2 tango, U can probably come up with sum nyc excuse dat can prevent U Guys havin sex.. If he really Likes U for who U re, he shud try respect Ur decisions but dats Gonna be hard cos U Guys cant be together without Ya havin Sex.. So U Just Gonna have 2 find another fing fun 2 do wiv him... Am sure he will Understand, Just explain why u dont wanna have sex Now to him..
2006-07-31 10:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy loves you back, then he should understand and appreciate that you're not ready.
What I recommend is that you discuss this with him as well, so he can get some disclosure as to why you're not ready, otherwise he may take it as an insult, which may cause more problems for you.
If however he's being too forceful, then perhaps the feeling he has towards you is lust, and It wouldn't be fair for you to show love in return for lust.
So, you do it when you're ready, not when he is. Make sure you discuss this with him so he knows where you're coming from.
2006-07-31 10:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready. Do not do it, just because you feel pressured into it, or because he wants to. The first time is an experience that should be had when you are ready, otherwise too many emotions get involved and if things ended up not working out, it could cause some anxiety about ever doing it again.
2006-07-31 10:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple....wait. If he's really in love with you....he will respect that decision. If he's not really in love with you....he'll keep pressuring you until you give in. Then he will soon be gone and you'll have both learned a lesson. He will have learned that, if that worked on you....it can work on hundreds of girls. You will have learned that, if he did that to you...then you probably weren't the first. Your kidding yourself if you think you are. Then, it's time to buy a pregnancy test kit AND while your at it.....get an AIDS test too. Isn't this fun?
2006-07-31 10:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him that you're not ready to go that far. Perhaps you can work something else out that you are comfortable with. Even if that's not possible, if he truly loves and cares about you he will respect your decision and be willing to wait for you. Good luck!
2006-07-31 10:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO! If he truly loves you, he will wait. Just think of the consequences if you're both not ready mentally. Also, if you are ready, make sure that both of you use protection. Not only him.
2006-07-31 10:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready before doing anything. If he really loves you he won't have a problem with that. If he bounces in the meantime, he wasn't for real.
2006-07-31 10:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready, and if he really loves you he will understand that and respect your feelings. I learned the hard way, i was so in love with my boyfriend and he wanted to have sex, but i wasnt ready, but i didnt want to tell him that so i just went with it, & now i regret it. Please tell him :)
2006-07-31 10:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by kristen4562 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should never do anything your not ready to do. If you know and feel that you love this guy, but your not ready...DON"T DO IT. You will know within yourself when you are ready. Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything your not ready to do. Be sure for yourself and yourself alone.
2006-07-31 10:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until u r ready and if he cant then he is not the one 4 u
2006-07-31 10:52:29 · answer #11 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋