When do women stop chasing after the wrong guys. At what age do they realize that bad boys only bring pain and problems. When do they sense up and go after the real thing that has meaning and purpose to them. When do they want the guy that will take care of them and wants them for all the right reasons?
2006-07-31 10:50:49 · 23 answers · asked by omenus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It varies from woman to woman. Some may never realize what's best for them, but most come around. Once they get over that shallow superficial stage (teenage years usually), they start to think about what would be better for them in the long run. Personally, I came to this realization myself about a year or so ago. After women experience pain (sometimes more than once) in a bad relationship, maybe they'll finally think to themselves, "Hey, why am I messing around with these jerks?" All of you nice guys, just wait and be your wonderful self. The women will eventually come around.
2006-07-31 10:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Oopsie Daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JustMe made a great point.
Still, As a woman, I think ButterfliesRfree's is on the right track. Some grown woman are still emotionally "girls"--meaning that we all want a nice guy and obviously no one deliberately wants to be disrespected but the problem is the emotionally immature are the ones that go for someone who isn't very respectful to them, indeed, disrespects them because their own self-worth is so low they do not think in their heart of hearts that they deserve to be the "nice guy" who shows interest or they are dating or whatever. It's ironic in life that the persons who need the gentlest treatment and who truly deserve it, after all childhood abuse and / or other trauma that makes them feel so unworthy, do not(some need therapy) have the ability to discern what is best for them
At what point can a woman like that change? When she gets help for her inner issues or when it's almost too late for her bruised and batter soul (hopefully not body) to heal from past pain and recognize that life is just too short.
2006-07-31 11:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cynics will say that gals go for the badboys, party etc. Ignoring the nice guys till it's time to "settle down" Why they're attracted to the bad boy in the first place is beyond me. But it seems like the good guy's ignored till they're bored with the partying. I can speak from experience cuz I started out a nice guy, became a prick. Now, I''ve grown up a bit and become a nice guy again. All said, it's VERY TRUE that more girls are into the badboy, ****** type.
2006-07-31 11:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women chase the wrong guys and the ones that do may never realize it. Some women go through a phase where they go after guys that are completely wrong for them, but then they come out of it. You can't really generalize all women and say that all of them go for the "bad" type of guy - because it's not true. There are many women out there that are looking for a sweet, dependable, loving, gentlemanly type of man.
2006-07-31 10:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to say some never do. I am in my mid thirties now and see friends chase after the same no good, jerk guys. I can tell you what the real issue is with these women. They have a poor self image of themselves. They are definitely not confident and usually very co-dependent. Your best bet is to just find a woman who doesn't carry so much baggage around.
2006-07-31 10:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by AngiB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw cry me a river and get some umph about yourself
thats why your ex is with him! He's got some umphf!
Start acting like a man. geez. They never stop chasing after guys lik that Xaemiejiel, you know why?
Because they will alwyas want a man that is as much about survival as he is about loving his woman.
They will accept the money and stability, but they will always want
THE ALPHA MALE
and you...aint it...
Stop crying go buy a motorcycle
Better yet, the next time your out iwth a girl and some young guys say something rude to ANYONE around you...confront them with her watching. If they are black (like you are, on the outside anyway), They will respect you if you come at them like a big bro owith some sense.
Her...SPLASH
instant wetness at how you showed those young men how to be men.
Be a man dont be afraid to stick it out there and get it cut off
Then you can have the woman you want
if not
...Good luck...
2006-07-31 12:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by St Guido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when they give up and decide to settle for less than they originally wanted. And how about you nice guys ? What kind of girls are you running after ? The homely ugly fat girl from down the street or the attractive women with the nice body ? Aren't there also nice girls and bad girls ? Aren't you nice guys always trying to get the attractive bad girls as well ? How come its ok for you ? I'm sure there are plenty of nice girls that are just waiting for you to ask them out. Maybe you should stop waiting for the bad attractive girls who are looking for the bad boys and settle for what you want us to settle for.
2006-07-31 10:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women will have nothing to do with evil men. It's only a handful of skanks that this is a problem with. What this behavior means is that they are the female equivalent of this type of guy and to be avoided by all normal men.
2006-07-31 10:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times "we" never learn. Some are attracted to the drama of the bad boy.
2006-07-31 10:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that some never do my mother in law is 50 and is still waiting for a man that is in a mental hospital ,this man is in their cause she put him their . he's a drug addict and will never get out he's been their for 6 yrs, so no some women never want a better man
2006-07-31 10:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋