my mum allways is makein me baby sit n if i dont she kicks me out. all she dose is starts arguements i cant do nothin coz i have no were els to go.
2006-07-31 10:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by *samzie* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try Connexions. They r online at connexions-direct.co.uk They help with the emotional stuff and can help getting a place of your own.
As for the arguments the golden rule is to walk away if she starts shouting and not to shout yourself. Say something like - 'There's not much point discussing this when we are both upset'
Say how you feel without using blame words.
e.g I can understand you need someone to babysit but when you ask me to babysit, I feel resentful because (and say why). How can we sort things so that we are both happy with the situation.
Trust me, I teach this sort of thing to parents so they can get on with their kids better, and there is no reason it can't work the other way round.
2006-07-31 11:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by tagette 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
That is harsh, your mother should not expect you to babysit your siblings. It is her responsibility to find suitable childcare. Have you tried talking to your mother and telling her how you feel. It sounds like there is alot of tension in the family home which is not good - is there no way you could stay with a friend or grandparents for a few days just to get a break? Just try and relax and maybe go for a walk just to get out of the house xx
2006-07-31 10:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like cabin fever! Maybe your Mum is stressed about paying bills, doing housework etc and has decided you're old enough to start helping out? It doesn't hurt to pull your weight around the place, try doing that for a couple of months and see of things improve.
2006-07-31 10:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Your mum shouldnt make you baby sit at any age, if you wanna do it then you should, if not she should respect your decision, they are mums kids not yours remember. Anyway she cant kick you out for that surley! Dont worry
2006-07-31 10:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by paula25catt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah what they said just go to the council and put your name on the list and if you want to get your own property quicker just tell them your gonna be homeless in a certain amount of time its up to you though when you first move into your own place its not as easy as you think with bills and stuff,it took me ages to learn how to iron its the one thing i cant stand
2006-07-31 12:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by summerlands_shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fisrt how old are u?
do want to baby sit?
if she kicks you out go to the council they will find you a house.
a beautifill girl like u can do anything u like
2006-07-31 23:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by D T P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You could always apply for a council property.
Don't let your mom treat you like this, its not fair for her to treat you that way.
Good luck!
2006-07-31 10:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and discuss your problems and grievances with your Mother. Then move in with me.
2006-07-31 10:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by deadly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she kicks you out your council should be able to re-house you. Go and see them asap.
2006-07-31 10:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself on the housing lists, if its bothering you that much. My mum hated me too, i have a nicer life without her.
2006-07-31 10:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋