chicks usually want to talk and cuddle and be romantic and stuff, but I want to sleep. Why is that? Why do girls want to talk and hug?
2006-07-31 10:34:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is evolution,for female is best to have sex with more and more male,to ensure strong offsprings, the strongest sperm (seed) wins, so she needs more donators:-)
so male falls asleep to give space to another male;-) so don't fall asleep
2006-07-31 10:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by J&F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why, but it's universally a guy thing which women generally hate, by the way. But, if you sit straight up right away, that sleepy urge will pass in a few seconds and you'll be fine. ( Try it and see if that isn't the truth!) As to why women like to cuddle and hug after sex, why not? Maybe they're more into intimate nuances than you are...but in recognition of the give and take nature of intimate relationships, it's in your best interest to give them that much ( particularly if you want to get it ever again).
2006-07-31 17:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's natural for you. The draining of blood from your brain to your "organs" is like vigorous exercise. And women (in general) can feel vulnerable after sex. Your girlfriend may feel that the cuddling, like foreplay, is a part of the intimacy of love making. Otherwise it is just the deed. If you want both to be happy compromise and cuddle til you fall asleep. If you roll over every time you will have her feeling like it was a chore.
Men Cuddle too! (try spooning)
2006-07-31 18:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Max B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well as a gurl...yea i like to cuddle...you can cuddle and fall asleep! we normally get up in the morning and talk! the most i say after having sex is "goodnight" unless its at other times in the day! but ur just probably tired from it all and that makes you want to go to sleep. girls just like to be loved and know that they are cared about....and if the person ur "doing" means alot to you then you should have no problems!
2006-07-31 17:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because you are programed for it. Its proven actually. Trust me, if you get the job done right, all she wants to do is sleep too. But most of the time the reason women want to cuddle and talk is because our bodies are still on the high and we want more and more while you guys just want to sleep.
2006-07-31 17:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you are male and you are tired. They want to talk and hug because for them there has just been a very intense connection that they see as emotional and so they need that. A guy sees that he just got off and now he doesn't want to be bothered. That tells you that you haven't been with a girl you really care about.
2006-07-31 17:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Males do this because of their male hormones. Watch "Dr. Drew" show. But we women want to cuddle, yack, etc. You ever tried sex in AM? That's when men are usually at their best.
2006-07-31 17:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by flowerlover12003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because that's the way we're build. We got the job done so now we want to rest. The women want to talk about it. Who know why. If the woman wants to talk after ward you better. That's if you want to hit it again any time soon.
2006-07-31 17:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we give it and girls take it, we put in more work. Therefore we are more tired. Sleep is a must.
2006-07-31 18:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex causes the same reaction as eating turkey.it is a chemical thing for us men and has been proven so.
2006-07-31 17:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by cantgetit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋