Still Virgin?

Question

what age did u lose ur virginity. im almost 16 and i feel that i need to have sex, its like everyone else has done it but me.

Answer 1

no.
don't do it
It makes you the special one!

Answer 2

Im 16 and still a virgin. and very proud of it. my bf is too. we both know that we arent responcible enough.

you arent invincible, you know? The condom CAN break...you can get pregnant..it happened to 3 of my freinds.

if you think you should becaus evryone else is,it's a stupid reason! What if something does go wrong? are you capable of raising a child, keeping up with gyno visits, dealing with an STD?

not everyone is havings ex, hun...juts the uneducated ones. don't become another statisticjust because youthough you should do it. dont let other people define who you are. be your own person and make your own desicions, bbased on how YOU feel...if you are truley ready or not.


dont have sex, you may regret it later.

Answer 3

Pleeease dont rush yourself into what everyone else is doing!!!! Sex is way over-rated and you are a better person for not letting your temptations give in. I cannot stress enough that sex is not the most important thing in this world. Do you have someone in mind? You have to be EXTRA careful now days, you know there are ALOT of diseases out there and half of the people carrying them are unaware of it or look completely healthy. Watch out before you go spreading those legs, cuz if you ask me, you might as well do it yourself if you know what I mean. Like I say... who knows your body and what your body likes more than you? the answer is NO ONE!! I can understand why you have the curiosity to have sex but believe me when I say you can do a better job of pleasing yourself than most men you come across in your life and if you dont know what I mean now, remember me cuz one day you will know!!!

Answer 4

I'm a year older and trust me, not everyone else has done it. Once you give away your virginity, you can never get it back. It's far better to wait until you're married to a loving man than to give it away to some immature teenage boy who will probably leave you soon after you "put out". Worse, he could leave you pregnant or with an STD. The teenage female's body is very suceptible to such things! Guard your body and your heart. You should respect yourself. And everyone else who is doing it now will probably regret it in the future. Don't do something you'll regret.

Answer 5

I lost mine at 16 but regreted it a lot after. Don't follow your peers with this one if you see them doing it. They will all get STDs, pregnant, etc before you... I'm 19 now.. almost married.. and I feel like I really wish that I waited till I met my fiance because it just feels wrong looking back that I gave myself in that way to guys I didn't care about or that didn't care about me. Make sure that if you decide to lose your virginity that it's when you can handle the consequences of sex and are in a loving, caring relationship. Hope this helped..

Answer 6

I was 18. I'm 24 now and I've only been with 2 people. Your just fine. Don't rush into it. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to. 16 is about the age I wanted to, but I waited until I found someone special who cared for me deeply.

Answer 7

Most anyone can relate. But, as i'm sure you've heard before....WAIT until you find the right person, however...this may not be the answer you need.
I suggest you wait until you know you will be able to handle any and ALL consequences. Pregnency, STD's, AID's, emotions.
At 16, darlin' I assure you- you have time to figure it all out. Don't rush into anything you aren't prepared to "pay for" in the end.

Answer 8

so You shouldn't have sex till your married. What would happen if your sexual partner had some kind of diease that he didn't know about then you'll get it. What if you forget protection or it doesn't work, you might get pregnate. Your better off waiting. Who cares what everyone else is doing. Your not them. They might not have even had sex they could be just telling people they did so they don't feel left out. If I where you I would wait.

Answer 9

You have to have sex when you are mentally, emotionally, physically, mature, and have the right partner. Everyone use to tell me to "give it up", but I waited until until i was ready with the right guy. I was 21 years old, I love him and we are still together! And i'll be 23 in dec. Be a leader not a follower. Plus you have to be careful with pregnancy, STD's, AIDS, and being called bad names(as you can imagine).

Answer 10

If everyone else has done it, that makes you unique, and special. Don't feel pressured into doing something you don't want to do. Besides with all the STD that's going around why expose yourself to something like that just to fit ???
Wait until it really feels like you are trully sharing something special with someone like marriage. It comes quick, don't sweat it.

Answer 11

No, you're not the only one. I plan to wait until I am married. I don't care what everyone else is doing. I know there is a lot of pressure now but I know it will be worth it later. Don't give in.