i am in love but im not sure my boyfriend love me
2006-07-31 10:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by aterg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love potions don't work...
He might tell you that some particularly degrading sex acts will do the job, but this is also a lie.
The truth is that it is not physically possible to MAKE someone else do anything.
You could try being nice to him, and telling him you love him, and spending time with him, and letting him enjoy the wonders of your... personality... but really, he will have to decide to love you, and whether he does or not is totally beyond your control.
2006-07-31 10:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you cannot "make" someone love you. That is probably a good sign that there is going to be trouble. You need to be open and ask him if he loves you. if he is not open about it he may have several things going on. Neither of which can "solve" for him. If you love him (really) then give him the time. If he is just using you for a booty call then it is up to you to realize it and choose to keep that way or move on. The only thing you can "make" is him and or you miserable.
2006-07-31 10:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Max B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he loves you or he doesn't, I've heard of people learning to love eachother with time, but if you're unsure of his love and he doesn't show it then move on and find someone else who will love you. By the way, the feeling of "love" statistically only lasts about a year. If you really need to know then just ask him. What do you have to lose? Whatever you do don't beg someone for their love nobody is worth it.
2006-07-31 10:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the lyrics of a country song:
At a table for two, with candle light and wine.
That diamond burnin' holes in his pockets, thinkin' now's the perfect time.
When he popped the question, he could see the teardrops fill her eyes.
She said I knew this was comin' and I'm sorry, but I hope you realize.
Chorus:
You can't make a heart love somebody.
You can tell it what to do, but it won't listen at all.
You can't make a heart love somebody.
You can lead a heart to love, but you can't make it fall.
Then she reached for his hand and said, I want you to know,
I've done everything that I know of to make the feeling grow.
I've begged and I've pleaded with my heart, but there's no gettin' through.
My heart's the only part of me that's not in love with you.
Repeat Chorus:
You can lead a heart to love, but you can't make it fall.
2006-07-31 10:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by bnccrw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force love. Let him know exactly how you feel, he'll start to think about it and if he does love you in return he'll most likely let you know. Give it a try, good luck ;)
2006-07-31 10:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if he loves you. How old are you? You cant make someone love you.
2006-07-31 10:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by sandy02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone to love you.
Just be good to him, try to do some beautiful things for him, surprise him from time to time... He will see that you are good person... and i hope he will love you...
2006-07-31 10:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sanja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to force him to love you, find the nearest psychopath ward. Guys HATE girls that force them to love them.
2006-07-31 10:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE YOURSELF enough to not ask such a ridiculous question! Plenty of fish in the sea.....go fishing!
2006-07-31 10:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes ur boyfriend loves u, if he dident then he would've broke up with u along time ago.....TAKE CARE
2006-07-31 10:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya Sizemore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋