ok, seeing a girl for 4 mos. She dropped me after her friends saw me talking and holding hands with another girl. NOTHING HAPPEND.
I really like this girl. Im not interested in anyone else. Is there any way to fix this?
2006-07-31 10:10:56 · 33 answers · asked by uncle rico 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, forget it. i would not have anything to do with you if you did that to me.
2006-07-31 10:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by lol 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although nothing might not have happened, the girl you were seeing for four months might not believe that because of her friends. They only way you might get her back is to tell her that nothing really did happen and that her friends are over reacting. Just tell her how much you love this girl and that you were doing nothing with the other girl you were holding hands with, but it will be hard to get her back just because of what her friends saw so best of luck
2006-07-31 10:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can always buy her a gift and write her a letter or poem and explain to her that you were just talking to the girl. That you would hope she doesn't believe everything people tell her without her asking you directly what happened. There are many cases where things are started that can be easily resolved. Also, tell her exactly how you feel about her.
2006-07-31 10:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Young Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why would you be holding hands with someone else ? I dont know, if you can get her to believe you didn't do anything then maybe you can have a chance but you WERE holding hands with someone. I wouldn't believe you. Maybe this is your lesson that when you really like someone you dont do things like that.
2006-07-31 10:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she doesn't have stupid written on her forehead. What the hell were you holding another girls hand for??? I doubt you'll get her back, but if by chance she chooses to let you back into her life ,she will never trust you fully again. She will smother you with her insecurities until you run..so why even bother.
2006-07-31 10:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do, i guess you should have thought of her feelings before you were holding someone elses hand. Turn the tables, how would you feel (honestly) if you saw her doing what you did????? Would you take her back???
2006-07-31 10:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mel-Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her that. She probably feels betrayed and it made it worse that she had to find out from her friends. Go and talk to her. It would probably be best if you started out as friends though-It will take some time before you can gain her trust again. If your intentions are true, then it shouldn't be too long before you're together. Good luck!
2006-07-31 10:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, why were you holding hands with some other girl? See, now you have to deal with the consequences. What a smart girl with fabulous friends!!!
2006-07-31 10:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Posh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can easily be swayyed. explain it to her and shower her with gifts! yeah the right thing to say would be.."women don't deserve to be treated so terribly so leave her alone" but then again women aren't the nicest people around. i kno... im a girl... just buy her roses after having apologized and explained the whole thing... why u were holding hands? i dunno.... u should admit u were wrong... don't promise ull never do it again cuz shes gonna kno ur lying.... tell her things like ur the only one for me and other loads of sappy crap hear in the movies... women love corny-ness. and don't forget t shower her in gifts!!!...=) (to all women reading this....u know its true... as long as he didn't cheat on her...hes good.)
2006-07-31 10:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by chahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why were you holding hands with the other girl?! okay w.e. just talk to her and tell her what you just said that your not intrested in anyone else and that you hope she will take you back after the incident it will never happen again and that you want to be with her....... thats all you can do if it dosnt work then well sorry
2006-07-31 10:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dame why would u do that if u care for this girl dude thats like playing with matches.
go to her and explain to her what was going on and dont beg no girl is worth that but tell her u want her not any one els and show her she is the one u want dont show up empty handed take flowers good luck
2006-07-31 10:16:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋