It seems every girl i get a thing for has a boyfriend. Is it cause i sit downand talk to them with ease. I mean i feel there is something there and i am not a big headed thinks hes god fella. Can anyone advise?
2006-07-31 10:08:30 · 27 answers · asked by MrHorse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just chill yaar, your special lady will come after you learn from all these ladies what not to do and what to do with women, so its just a growing and maturing phase, accept it ! cheers !
2006-07-31 10:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Minto 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just attracted to the females that are laid back and comfortable. The carefree ones, that is some of the qualities we posses as taken women, it's not you at all. SOME single women are usually on the prowl and some men don't like that. It's like when I wasn't in a relationship I didn't get as many takers as I do now. I came to find out that when I didn't have a man I was looking and without knowing it probably looked desperate. But when I gave up and had fun my guy found me and now I get more offers than I can handle. Again, it's the vibe women have, especially the taken ones. Don't give up eventually you will pick one that is not taken, never settle for less, good luck.
2006-07-31 17:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same unfortunately. Always like guys who have girlfriends/wives. I don't know what it is. Maybe because they're not out to impress you and are being themselves and you're not trying to impress them either because they are already taken. You get to see the real people and not the public persona that a lot of people put on. That's my theory anyway.
2006-07-31 17:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by the woo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other guys ask out the hot girls too you know.
Just keep trying and eventually you'll find one that's free, and looking... or you can tell the ones that have boyfriends that you don't want to push anything, but if they should break up... That usually doesn't work though.
2006-07-31 17:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its because they ARE attached !! Its an easy option for you ... sounds like you may be a little insecure about your self babe .. and worried of getting a 'No' should you ask a single girl out ! So you go for the safe bet .. knowing there is no possibility.
Good luck though xx
2006-07-31 17:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by snooky me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when a girl has a boyfriend she has more self confidence in herself. Guys are attracted to girls with loads of self confidence, unfortunately that also usually comes with her being attached already.
2006-07-31 17:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by shoeless wonder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the pressure is off you seem to climb the relational ladder much easier. Perhaps your thinking about it too much when your around single woment. quit trying to impress and be the same laid back sort of joe you are with women who seem to be romantically inaccessable.
2006-07-31 17:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl that happened to me but the opposite guys in stead of girls its natural just find a new girl and you'll get over it soon!
2006-07-31 17:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chelyse C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah pretty girls are not usually single for long. Also if you already know they have a bf and get interested you could have subconscious commitment issues.
2006-07-31 17:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by freespirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just be friends with the girls that u fall for first so then u can learn everything about them but that can be a bad thing because then they wil just think of u as a friend. I'm sorry man I don't know wat to tell u
2006-07-31 17:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by softballplayer913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋