Can women really be friends with benefits and not get attached?

Answer 1

yes I had a couple of FTF's and they are still great friends

Answer 2

I imagine it is possible... but in my experience it has never happened.
I have been in two relationships where, before going over that line, we said, "only friends with benefits". Needless to say both women got seriously involved and did not want to let go of that relationship when the time came. Both of them got very hurt, and I really feel bad about that. I feel partly responsible. Still, as heartless as it may seem, the rules were set, and they let it get weird by not saying anything until it was too late.
If there were a woman out there that wanted to be "friends with benefits" with a man I would be very cautious if I were he. As fun as it is it in the beginning it can get very weird very fast if she, or even he, lets some harmless fun get too serious. The result is a lot of pain for the one who let it get serious and guilt for breaking it off for the one who needed to go.
If there is that girl out there that wants to have a harmless “friends with benefits” relationship I would only say be careful with what your are feeling and don’t let it get too serious.

Answer 3

For a short amount of time, yes, but eventually, the woman will get hooked. Women have needs to, and we get used to a reliable source for some fun. We also may get jealous if you have to many "friends with benefits" or they cross each others paths on occasion.

Just keep reminding her that you are just having fun and if she can't handle it, you need to stop, before one or both of you get hurt.

Also, it is possible to keep the friendship without the benefits, it's just a slow process.

Good luck.

Answer 4

It depends on if she has ever been attatched to this guy. If it's her ex not a snowball's chance in hell. But if your a friend or a new guy we are totally capable. It just matters if we're into it. Some girls will say they will be your friend with benefits because they really do like you. These girls you need to stay away from if all you want is company and a booty call.

Answer 5

Not this "lady"! If you had her body you would have her heart! Can't do it, Nope! Not me! We're a "package" deal! Sooner or later the people that do are gonna get "caught" {attached} and when the other one is only playing they're gonna get hurt! Careful there Big Daddy!!!!! The heart you save may be your own!!!!!

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

No. It may start out that way, but if it happens over time, she'll probably get attached. Just speaking from my personal experience, I thought I could do it, but couldn't. I ended up wanting all or nothing.

Answer 8

Not really, girls release a hormone throughout sex that stimulates those feelings of being a couple, men release the same hormone, but only during ejaaculation, so even if she denies any feelings she more than likely is just hiding those feelings.

Answer 9

Yes, we can. It may not be for everyone, but personally it worked great for me. I don't know why more people don't do it. It just makes life so much easierand nive to know you always have a "friend", but you don't have to be attached.

Answer 10

Every girl that I ever wanted to have a platonic relationship always wanted to ***** me. I guess the moral to the story guys if you want to get laid more often and by more girls, just be friends first. It may take time, but they will go crazy wanting you.

Answer 11

Can men? I know of a lot of instances where they were the ones that couldn't keep perspective on the situation. What is more irresistable to a man than a woman who doesn't want him?