with his kids,and my sis is friends with her to , but thinks it is some other guys so what do I do?
2006-07-31 09:51:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Prepare for many baby showers and a lot of fighting.
Just try to stay out of it. Tell them it's not your business and walk away. Oh, and let your sister and friend cry on your shoulder a bit.
2006-07-31 09:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEARN FROM THIS!!!! And don't have sex until you are married.
First, stay out of this, completely. You will end up making enemies somewhere. this boy is going to have to pay child support to both girls and I think that if you just lay back, keep your mouth shut and never admit you knew anything about this, that you will be in a better position all the way around. Because DNA tests can not be performed before the child is born, and for all you don't know, there could be another boy involved here somewhere. So stay clear of this whole thing.
Also - you can tell them to call 1 800 848 5683
this is a national pregnancy hot line & they can put them in touch with a pregnancy resource center near you. The center offers free pregnancy tests, counseling, lots of information about services that are available including adoption, most give parenting classes. All their services are free and confidential.
Also - there are 50 sexually transmitted diseases common among teens & pre teens today.
most have no symptoms
most have no cure
can get from any sexual contact
some cause cancer
some cause life long damage
these girls should be tested immediately to see if they have any STD that will harm their babies.
2006-07-31 17:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk! This is a very good reason that all us gals should keep ourselves pure for marriage. I realise that even married men do lousy things. However, I think that when "free love" became the prevailing mentality, women really got the raw end of the deal. I mean, if you think about it, what does a man have to lose by bedding as many women as he can? Pretty much nothing, with the exception of venerael diseases. But women have to deal with pregnancy and raising the poor child as well. A lot of men don't put one thought into that! Consider the fact that my ex with whom I had two kids, owes me $103,000 in child support. He obviously doesn't care at all!! I wish someone would've told me what I was getting myself into by just giving away the most precious part of me. I can never get that back!!
Girls, if you are still a virgin, thank God, and keep it that way till you find a man suitable to raise children with, and marry him!!
As for this jerk, I would get the two women together with him and confront the issue then. Just be ready for a cat fight. But if they're smart, they'll walk away and never give this toad the time of day again!!
Much Love & hope it works out!!
2006-07-31 17:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is indeed a sticky situation, but I really don't see that it's up to you to solve their problem. They got themselves into this mess, and they'll have to figure it out. If the boy is your sister's boyfriend, what's your best friend doing dating him? He's evidently two-timing both girls, and neither of them knows about the other. I'd hate to be in his shoes. He's probably too young to even have a job or any means of support for these babies-to-be. Is there any proof that he's even the father? Something about these girls makes me think promiscuity. My best advice to you -- stay out of it. It's going to hit the fan sooner or later, and you don't want to be in the middle of it. Don't ask me how, but somehow these things do resolve themselves, so just go about your business, don't be carrying stories back and forth, and avoid getting yourself into a similar situation.
2006-07-31 17:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either he tells them the truth or you will tell them. Your sister needs to know the truth. Make sure he or you tell her in a calm matter so she will not lose the baby. Let her cry on your shoulder once she knows. For your best friend I would end the friendship because she knew that was your sister's bf and she still sleep with him.
2006-07-31 16:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. You have nothing to do with this. Get involved and you will look like the bad guy. Unless it's your sister. If this is your sister then tell her. If it's a friend no. Don't get involved unless it's your own family.
2006-07-31 16:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by curiousthree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister, and if you need to, tell your parents as well. This "boyfriend" is just a player and she doesn't need to waste any more time on him. Tell your best friend the same thing as she needs to know this guy is bad news as well. If they ignore you, at least you tried. Good luck.
2006-07-31 16:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Aunt Biwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one....hummmmmm? Well if you spill the beans it would probably be better...your sister is going to find out sooner or later and so is your friend.....at least they would be finding out from you and not someone else. On the other hand this could cause them to not believe you and get really mad at you. I would go with telling them......why prolong the drama.
2006-07-31 16:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your sister, tell her. Think, eventually she will find out and she will B mad at U 4 keeping that secret, do U want that? But hell it's all on U, just do the right thing.
2006-07-31 16:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and get it out in the open even if it means losing a friend that is wrong and i cold never keep that a secret at all - or u could do what other people on here are tellin u and go to jerry springer
2006-07-31 18:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋