2006-07-31 09:40:34 · 33 answers · asked by p_engr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its right! whats wrong with that? ive been living with my bf of 5 years for about 2 years now!
2006-07-31 09:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its was proven in a study that people that move in before marriage have a higher chance for divorce. The reasons behind this are quite simple. Before marriage its like playing house you can leave anytime you want but once your married its a little more complicated. If you intend to get married i would say no!
2006-07-31 09:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your religious beliefs. I moved in with my husband before we were married, and I thought I could handle it because I loved him soo much. But after about six months, it really began to bother me and I told him I couldn't live with him w/o being married. So we got married and now I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I hadn't "forced" him to make a decision. I know he loves me, but I missed out on the romantic engagement memories. If it goes against your beliefs, don't do it.
2006-07-31 09:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tambrat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving in with someone before you get married is the BEST thing you can do; that way you find out exactly what they are like to live with before making any major commitments (like marriage).
Think of it as a "trial run".
2006-07-31 09:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right, at least in the cotholic religion it isn't, but society is warping ppls mind that it is. That is part of the excitement of getting married.....do what you think God would want you to, even if it will be harder, you will be rewarded for it and it will pay off in the long run
2006-07-31 09:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it wrong but you must have a understanding that it's 50/50 other wise you will be doing everthing. Men don't seem to have a brain to help (the ones I know) Go with what you feel right and you spouse.
2006-07-31 09:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idle? You have to be able to enjoy your partner and be able to stand them all the time. If you can live with that person then you know things will work better. If not how are things going to go when you are married??
2006-07-31 09:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by jessaller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people throw the word commitment around. But few live up to it. In this day and age, I would want to live with someone for at least a year before I considerd marriage. To know I could
really live with them.
If you can wake up in the morning. And see thier hair standing up on their head, and thier bad breath blowing in your face. And they
look beautiful to you. Marry them.
But if you wake up and look at them. And thier hair is in place. And thier breath smells like roses. But it makes you sick to look
at them. Run for the hills!
2006-07-31 09:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tegghiaio Aldobrandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago, I would have said no way. But as I get older, I see other ways of looking at things. You have to do what you think is best for you. If there are not any commitment issues, then try it out,but I probably wouldn't do it for years and years.
2006-07-31 09:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by consigliere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think its right, but try to wait till u get married u might go back and wish u would've. I mean u could start getting dept problems and all sorts.
2006-07-31 09:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by =)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine...gives you a chance to see how you as a couple would do in a marriage situation. What if there are things that he does that absolutely drove you crazy, better to find out now then after the wedding....not that you mentioned marriage.
2006-07-31 09:46:18 · answer #11 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋