shes 13...and im 15...im the first guy to ever hit on her...and she used to be all over me.. but when she found out i liked her...she backd off ..i mean b4 we would flirt like crazy..and talk all the time...now i think shes just scared and duznt know what to do...i talked to her about it, and she said she was busy and really stressed but in kno that that is bs.....do u think she likes me and is scared..or what??
2006-07-31 09:37:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was like a month ago when i asked her out..and she has been really distant..but when i talk to other girls......she seems to take more notice..or every once in a while ill see her sneak a glance at me
2006-07-31 09:45:09 · update #1
I think that if you really like this girl then you'll give her time to figure out her feelings. She can't tell you yet how exactly she feels if she doesn't even know how she feels. In my opinion, she just probably have a lot going on in her life and finding out that you liked her was too much to deal with at the moment. Relax....if you give her time she'll tell you what you already know... (pssst..that she like you!)
2006-07-31 09:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dijonmustard24 2 · 18⤊ 7⤋
She sounds like she is a little bit shy and unsure of herself or what she wants. Before it wasn't serious when the two of you flirted around, but when she found out you liked her, she got scared. Remember, this is new territory to her, (since no other guy has hit on her before.) So take the pressure off, back up, and continue to be her friend till her confidence is built up. Be patient!
2006-07-31 16:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look some girls like to flirt and thats it, dont think flirting is the beging of somthing cause it usually isnt (somtimes). Dont say anything about it for a while with her and see if she talks about it in any way ok. Or she might be to young to understand what shes felling rite now remember take your time dont rush into things. C, ya
2006-07-31 16:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Worry. She may be afraid of the age difference between you two. She probably just saw you as the sophomore or freshman that she just had a crush on...Then again she may be worrying about what other people may say about you too hooking up. (Remember: She's just 13, she still cares about what other people think) But on the real just give her time. maybe even confront her about it. Just don't rush or "pressure" her into something thats she is not ready for. "Keep your head up"
2006-07-31 16:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One she is still very young but showing her u are mature enough to handle any situation ,give her some space like two weeks and concentrate on other things , if she likes u she will call or text u so back off i alittle bit she is just scared.
2006-07-31 16:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by cool guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is scared. I remember feeling like that with the first guy that ever paid me any attention. I was all talk , but when it came down to it I was no action... Just be nice to her, and try to be her friend, maybe she'll turn around.
2006-07-31 16:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is scared it's a really big step at that age. You worry about what if he wants sex, pregnancy, or just plain ruining the friendship. Have an honest talk would be the best.
2006-07-31 16:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she scared like you mention your the first guy who give hit that you like her....or maybe she just want you as a friend...who knows.
coz for my own opinion girls are like that..if one of our friend start hitting on us we back out...means we stop are communication. maybe we feel betray.
you mention you talk to her already about it but she deny it...well i guess respect her desicion....give her space and atleast this is the only way to find out if she likes you too. stop calling her and let her miss you.....coz if you still gonna be around her she wont know your value.
good luck
2006-07-31 16:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey a lot of people like the "chase" but once you get "caught" the fun is over... You can tell if she really likes you by talking to other girls in front of her and see how she reacts........
2006-07-31 16:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu mi link
since yu talk to er a ready jus play like yu betta dan er
1st get another and flirt with er CRAZILY in front of er( the fist girl) mek she feel jealous
2nd ignore her COMPLETELY mek she feel she nuh Exist
3rd when she comes bac to talk play "Hard-to-Get" just a little then have her commit herself to you and you ONLY
4th then you can dump the 2nd girl or if yu skill enuff yu can keep her jus if sumthing goes wrong
IT MUST WORK
2006-07-31 16:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Supreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe per parents stepped in - she is too young. Perhaps you came on too strong. You did say you think she is scared. Why? I think you did something to scare her.
2006-07-31 16:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by flowerlover12003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋